#37
by cathyincali » Apr 26, 2010 6:04 am
Many of the respondents on this issue seem to think, not that this one particular family isn't doing a good job with their unschooling approach, but that unschooling "can't" work.
But they are advancing this opinion with apparently little or no evidence of any kind. I don't to be pounced on for advancing anecdotal evidence, but my own kids and many others I know essentially unschooled most of their K-12 educations and did great in college (or, in some cases, in the upper grades of high school, in the case of several kids who decided to go to formal school programs after 10 or so years of unschooling.
So those who assume it can't work are simply wrong. Without tests and classes, without assignments, unschooling CAN work.
(One thing in the title I have to throw out. I've never heard of anyone unschooling without any BOOKS at all. We didn't purchase textbooks, other than one great algebra book, but we bought, read, borrowed, and used many, many books of all sorts.)
People assume that, if allowed to choose for themselves, kids won't choose academic stuff or hard stuff. That's simply not true of the kids I know. One of my daughters worked her way through that algebra book because she wanted to. One daughter decided to study geology at age 8 and made flashcards, used lots of reference books, and started a great collection. One daughter spent several years studying marine biology.
Some of the respondents here ask how kids know what they "want" to study without being assigned subjects, but of course unschoolers are part of the world. They see stuff on TV that is fascinating and calls out for more investigation--an example right now might be, "Why is Iceland such a volcanic hot spot?"--they go to museums, they travel, they read good historic novels that draw them into learning more about the time period, and so forth. I felt like one of my roles, as a parent, was to expose the kids to lots of different stuff. Another role, of course, was to help them follow their interests--gather materials, help brainstorm ideas, find resources.
Unschooling can work because parents don't have to teach kids everything, PLUS because parents can teach a lot. Obviously kids don't need human teachers to learn everything--otherwise, none of us would be able to learn from books, Abraham Lincoln would have been an uneducated country bumpkin, and Warren Dew (who wrote eloquently on this thread) would know precious little math. We are all autodidacts at times in our lives...
Also, parents of unschoolers can find "teachers" other than themselves without necessarily turning to schoolish-classes. For example, I found a self-proclaimed "rock guy" (a guy with a hobby) who helped my daughter with her enthusiasm for rocks and minerals. He had a diamond saw and opened many geodes for her (polished a few, too), he talked about where he got this specimen and that one, why this rock is green and how to test pyrite, and he even gave her a few amazing pieces. (We also bought some rocks from him, which is how we first met him.)...
Finally, I think we short-change parents by assuming that they can't help kids learn if they aren't specialists in a subject. I have only taken one astronomy class in my life, so I wouldn't be shopping myself around to schools claiming I am qualified to teach astronomy, but I have read about astronomy since age 13, and my enthusiasm for it plus lots of knowledge plus eagerness to help them find answers to additional questions--it all adds up to, yeah, I can teach my kids a LOT about astronomy. When my kid was interested in marine biology, she was 12 years old. I dove into the subject, and in the course of pulling together materials she might like, I ended up with so much good stuff that I finally gathered a largish group of homeschooled/unschooled kids to meet once a week for the better part of a year. We all did a ton of interesting things and we all learned a ton.
My two oldest unschooled until age 16. At that age, one daughter joined a formal homeschooling program and faced tests and assignments for the first time. She did great, graduated and got into her #1 choice of university and got a scholarship. She graduated with honors and is now in a master's program. My next daughter went to junior college at age 16, transferred to a college at age 19, and graduated with top honors. (My youngest is just 18 and a freshman in college.)
Unschooling can work for the same reason that little kids can learn all the stuff they learn before they go to school: humans are good at learning.
And, finally, cognitive science and educational research shows that testing can impede learning and rarely improves it, that assignments and assigned topics can stifle interest and learning, and that letter grades and some other sorts of evaluations tend to diminish learning as well. If we look at the evidence about how people learn, it would seem that unschooling is the way to go -- IF, as Harmless Eccentric says, kids and parents are motivated.