#6 by Millefleur » Mar 01, 2010 1:43 am
Tatertail, I think most of the parents at my daughters school would think that, but we've had many pregnancies/births amongst friends and family and also keep pets (I breed chickens) so being the curious little munchkin that she is she's asked where babies come from, how they've got there, and (off her own back) how her friends with two mummies came to be without the necessary penises so I've opted for honesty.
I expect she'll be far more knowledgeable of the subject of sex and reproduction then her friends by the time she hits secondary school, she's one of those children who's vocabulary consists mainly of why, how, why, when, why, what, why.. etc but she's like that with all aspects of nature, it fascinates her. I see no reason not to answer honestly whether its the ins and outs of sex or why the dinosaurs are dead, if she wants the answer and I can provide it then she'll get it. Like you say better to spoil her innocence and arm her with knowledge, right?
Without divulging enough personal experience to get me told off by the mods (hopefully), I lost my virginity far too young but at least had the benefit of a decent education, knowledge of condoms and a steady relationship. I'd rather my daughters never labelled sex as taboo or mysterious and were as honest and open with me when the time comes and hopefully use my crappy anti-climax of an experience to put it off til a reasonable age and, most importantly, do it safely.
Anyway, they're still innocent, reproductive organs are just functional body parts, no need to attach filth and sin to them. The only points I (subtly) emphasise is that grown-ups have sex with each other and make babies and that children keep their private parts to themselves.
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