Yeah, I'm a sinner. I have been really naughty. Someone needs to punish me.


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quas wrote:Sendraks wrote:Charlou wrote:I find the "it never did me any harm" justification interesting ... Recently came across an article about initiation rituals, the upshot of which suggested that the psychology of the victim of initiation often defaulted to acceptance of what happened in order to make sense of it, and to normalise it .. as a form of ego preservation. I'll try and find it.
That's be helpful, although I suspect it will consistent with the experience of many who go through therapy that they have normalised abusive behaviour.
A child really has little or no concept of "normal" and what occurs within the bounds of their family is normalised by them. It is only when they reach an age that they have experience about how other children were treated by their parents that they can put "normal" behaviour into some sort of context.
Probably just a variant of Stockholm Syndrome.
NamelessFaceless wrote:Onyx8 wrote:That wouldn't be christian.
Well, it's kind of the whole philosophy behind Christianity, isn't it? That we're all just a bunch of bad kids who deserve to be punished because of all the bad things we've done (Romans 3:10 "As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one.") And someone has to be punished for our misdeeds. But then this cool guy Jesus came along and took our licks for us. That dude "saved" us! What a friend we have in Jesus!
Maybe this is why Mick is having a hard time letting go of the retributive philosophy. Once you accept that no one deserves to suffer, it may lead to the conclusion that no one needs the services of a "savior."
Mick wrote:No one reasoned that prisons are in such-and-such way, and so that must be OK.
What are you attempting to say here? That prisons suck and this is because ''we'' want people to suffer and this is as it should be? You need to argue for that.
I'm getting there. First we need to accept retributivism in principle.
Instead, I pointed out that are prisons are this way, that is, fashioned toward retributive justice, and hence that is good evidence that we think retributive justice is OK.
Otherwise, we'd be inconsistent, and surely we are not.
Aside from the hug-a-thugs and such,
many North Americans agree with the idea of retributive justice to some degree, I reckon.
You might object that you're not included in this 'we' stuff, and that's fine. I'm able to speak generally insofar as most people within the scope of reference, indeed a great many, agree with the line of thinking I attribute to them. Likewise, I can say we agree with democracy, even though a few here and there, do not.
Moving on, your ideas are muddled.
When we give someone a medal, someone who won a race, say, we do it because they deserve it. This is true even if the medal promotes nothing; it is true even if it had no positive results in future behavior, no positive reinforcement. Of course that it also offers positive reinforcement is another motivator, and a good one at that. However, it is not necessary. The winner deserves his prize; and so he gets it. Likewise, we someone only earns a silver or a bronze, rather than the gold, it is because someone else deserved the gold better than he. This silver winner deserves silver, not the gold; and hence he doesn't get the gold.
You need to grant this: things can be given simply because they are deserved, regardless of whether it is an instance of positive reinforcement.
Now, the logic with retributivism in justice is not that 'all x is wrong; and you did x; and I hence I will do x to you'. That's a little dumb, and it is a strawman. Instead, behaviors are wrong or permissible in relation to privilege, status and authority, and in relation to justification. For instance, it is a captain of a ship can behave in ways different from the rest; he has different authoritative powers. It is wrong for a member of the crew to imprison another member, but not wrong for a captain, so long as he has justification. It is wrong for a child to drive, but not an adult. A sibling does not have parental authority, but parents do, etc..
In the case of violent bullying, the charge against the child is that 'bullying is wrong', 'tarnishing the family name is wrong', 'hitting another person unjustly is wrong', etc.. Thus, you deserve to be spanked or hit by your parent. Notice that none of this carries the inconsistency you tried to attribute-there is no formal inconsistency of any sort.
Hell, the way you reason, imprisonment would be inconsistent as a sentence for the crime of unlawful detainment. lol.
Mick wrote:Fallible: Do you grant me this:
People should get things they deserve.
Nothing about this commits you to the idea that people deserve to suffer; it is just the commitment to deserts. People should get whatever it is they deserve. An instance of this would be the Olympians. Do you agree? If not, why?
Also: I've explained why the family name is important. you ignored it.
Mick wrote:People should get things they deserve.
Fallible wrote:
Oh lordy...Mick, what possible use could you get out of that? The very crux of the matter is that we disagree on what it is that people deserve. Surely you understand that much...You're not paying attention, and that's causing you to misunderstand what's being said. The glaring issue is that you don't think there's a problem with ''punishing'' such a transgression with physical violence and pain.
Mick wrote:NamelessFaceless wrote:Onyx8 wrote:That wouldn't be christian.
Well, it's kind of the whole philosophy behind Christianity, isn't it? That we're all just a bunch of bad kids who deserve to be punished because of all the bad things we've done (Romans 3:10 "As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one.") And someone has to be punished for our misdeeds. But then this cool guy Jesus came along and took our licks for us. That dude "saved" us! What a friend we have in Jesus!
Maybe this is why Mick is having a hard time letting go of the retributive philosophy. Once you accept that no one deserves to suffer, it may lead to the conclusion that no one needs the services of a "savior."
Why is it true that no one deserves to suffer? Explain that to me.
Mick wrote:1. People should get what they deserve.
Mick wrote:2.Sometimes people deserve negative things.
Mick wrote:Fallible wrote:
Oh lordy...Mick, what possible use could you get out of that? The very crux of the matter is that we disagree on what it is that people deserve. Surely you understand that much...You're not paying attention, and that's causing you to misunderstand what's being said. The glaring issue is that you don't think there's a problem with ''punishing'' such a transgression with physical violence and pain.
I'm going to presume you have no problem with this:
1. People should get what they deserve.
So, let me extend:
2.Sometimes people deserve negative things.
Ok, do you agree with 2? Think of negative grades; think of an F grade on a paper, for instance. Suppose someone put no effort in his essay, or he even plagiarized. It is fair, I think, to grant that he earns his bad grade, and it is a negative thing, I reckon. It will have a negative impact.
If you do, then from 1 and 2, you're committed to 3:
3. Sometimes people should get negative things.
I'm building up here. I'm trying to find the sticking point, if there is something more rudimentary at work here.
Try this one too:
4. Adults who murder deserve the loss of their freedom.
5. A person who loses their freedom suffers.
If you agree,
you seem committed (though not inferentially) to the idea that some desert causing suffering is OK. If you don't, which idea do you disagree with?
2.Sometimes people deserve negative things.
Ok, do you agree with 2? Think of negative grades; think of an F grade on a paper, for instance. Suppose someone put no effort in his essay, or he even plagiarized. It is fair, I think, to grant that he earns his bad grade, and it is a negative thing, I reckon. It will have a negative impact.
3. Sometimes people should get negative things.
I'm building up here. I'm trying to find the sticking point, if there is something more rudimentary at work here.
Try this one too:
4. Adults who murder deserve the loss of their freedom.
5. A person who loses their freedom suffers.
If you agree, you seem committed (though not inferentially) to the idea that some desert causing suffering is OK. If you don't, which idea do you disagree with?
Mick wrote:Fallible wrote:
Oh lordy...Mick, what possible use could you get out of that? The very crux of the matter is that we disagree on what it is that people deserve. Surely you understand that much...You're not paying attention, and that's causing you to misunderstand what's being said. The glaring issue is that you don't think there's a problem with ''punishing'' such a transgression with physical violence and pain.
I'm going to presume you have no problem with this:
1. People should get what they deserve.
So, let me extend:
2.Sometimes people deserve negative things.
Ok, do you agree with 2? Think of negative grades; think of an F grade on a paper, for instance. Suppose someone put no effort in his essay, or he even plagiarized. It is fair, I think, to grant that he earns his bad grade, and it is a negative thing, I reckon. It will have a negative impact.
If you do, then from 1 and 2, you're committed to 3:
3. Sometimes people should get negative things.
I'm building up here. I'm trying to find the sticking point, if there is something more rudimentary at work here.
Try this one too:
4. Adults who murder deserve the loss of their freedom.
5. A person who loses their freedom suffers.
If you agree, you seem committed (though not inferentially) to the idea that some desert causing suffering is OK. If you don't, which idea do you disagree with?
Onyx8 wrote:It's all just catholic doctrine interpreted in the modern era. Ignore it. It will all go away eventually.
Yeah, retribution, that works well.
Jebus via Matthew wrote:5:38 Ye have heard that it hath been said, An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth:
5:39 But I say unto you, That ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also.
redwhine wrote:Onyx8 wrote:It's all just catholic doctrine interpreted in the modern era. Ignore it. It will all go away eventually.
Yeah, retribution, that works well.
...but not very "christian"...Matthew wrote:5:38 Ye have heard that it hath been said, An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth:
5:39 But I say unto you, That ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also.
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