Right, so, here's the bar top epoxy from
AeroMarine.
Here's where I got the forms/additives/matting:
Concrete Countertop Solutions.
I got the sink mold and other doodads from
Expressions Ltd.I also read stupid amounts about concrete for like 2 weeks to make sure I wasn't being taken for a ride. Near as I can tell, those Z-Counterforms are the best for pour in place countertops because they snap off clean so you don't have to sand the edges.
My total cost was about $1000 for all materials, including the sink mold, so without that it was like $800, $200 I think was for the forms. If you want to flip it into place you can make your own forms from whatever you want the edges to look like (plexiglass for plexiglass smooth edges). I also read into making things from Glass Fiber Reinforced Concrete that you can spray into molds so you end up with the same strength at half the weight. You can make some sleek looking stuff with that method. I didn't use it because I don't have room for a good compressor, which you need. Basically it needs to be able to spray stucco.
Anyway, if you flip it into place after making it in a different place you have a few benefits: You get to perfectly level it, sand the edges nice, have it away from your living space, easier to manage/repair if something cracks. It's not as aesthetically pleasing because there'll be seams but you can always hide seams with leftover cement and whatnot. I didn't have space for that either so I just went whole-hog and got, in my opinion, lucky as hell for my first time. Total time, regardless of the method, is about a week, during which you want to tend to it so it doesn't get too dry and start flaking/cracking along the dry lines. Just keeping it under plastic and spritzing with water was enough for mine.
Sanding it was the worst, I think. I got mine to around 800 grit with the diamond wheel and called it good, I didn't want a mirror finish. The nice thing about sanding, though, is that the finer you get the more resistant to staining the concrete is. Etching might be more noticeable, though, similar to marble etching. There are surface hardeners that use up the leftover lime so etching is less of a problem, and that also prevents staining. The other option there is to seal it. You can either use epoxy or polyurethanes or wax, I think. I remember reading about a method that let you keep the unsealed look with the sealed protection. I like the patina, though, which is why I chose concrete in addition to it letting me be cheap. My other favorite was a zinc countertop but zinc deforms at some ungodly low temp so I wasn't sure I could put pans from the oven directly on it without fucking things up.
As far as difficulty of the pour and set up, not difficult, really. If you can follow directions and be prepping the the next bucket or whatever you'll be fine. If I did it again I would have had a third person vibrating the pour spot with a palm sander to ensure even distribution, but it seemed to work out somehow. The prep took a week, I think, but I was still active duty at the time. It also depends it you want to use glass fiber matting like I did, which meant screwing in support posts every 3 inches or something.
One big thing I missed was supporting the places where I didn't have a cabinet face, like where the dishwasher, sink, and oven went, so the plywood and backerboard deflected a bit in those places.