Animavore wrote:When I was a kid if I done something wrong my ma would beat me. I was a lot weaker so all I could do was cower until she decided I'd had enough (or she'd had enough). She was seeking retribution for my slights while I was completely at her mercy. All the time she was claiming she was doing it "for my own good." This is how it works in a retributative system also. A person does somethng wrong, and now he's on the stand, completely powerless and at the mercy of everyone else deciding his fate. All the while we tell them we take no pleasure in this.
Yes, and?
What my mother should've done was talked to me and tried to find out why I was doing what I was. Likewise we should be trying to analysis and find out what is wrong with young offenders and do our best to try help them and out and listen to them instead of chucking them into jail as a punishment. Especially not dangerous jails where they'll have to quickly learn to be vicious if they need to survive and can end up in the arms of gangs for added protection. That is to say we should be doing our best to keep them out of jail. No one but the most dangerous and violent should really be ending up in there. And even then it won't be as a punishment, but for the protection of everyone else.
Nothing you said here is against retribution per se. For instance, we could also try to find out why a person committed a crime. We can hear them out (as we often do). We can help them, too. None of this excludes the idea of retribution. We might even decide that the criminal doesn't deserve retribution, and that restitution or rehabilitation should be the sole end. Also, we might even decide that jail is too extreme of a punishment, and prefer something else instead.
I don't want to seem rude here, but nothing you said thus far is relevant questioning the principle of retribution itself. Maybe that's not your goal. If so, then proceed...
If someone wrongs me I don't expect any retribution at all. I'd expect an apology, maybe, or in some cases, like after an argument while drinking, it would just simply be dropped the next day.
Would you say that you
deserve an apology, sometimes?
If someone does something serious to me I don't want them punished, I want them to made to face up to what they've done and helped along the way. What good is punishing people with threats and violence going to do anyway? Most people just end up resenting their punishers and end up fighting harder against the system. I know I would, just like I seriously rebelled against my over-bearing mother as a teen.
While I don't think retributivism should be characterized as "punishing people with threats and violence", the good is found in the very act of giving what they deserve.
The only punishment should be a lack of reward. Teaching people a lesson by beating them down doesn't seem very effective to me.
Effective at what? Making them better? That's not even the goal of retributivism.