Rachel Bronwyn wrote:Can we have another chorus of "No one is saying it was intentional or malicious"?
You are wasting your time, Rachel.
It just isn't worth it.
By a shirt
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Rachel Bronwyn wrote:Can we have another chorus of "No one is saying it was intentional or malicious"?
Rumraket wrote:that was definitely not my intention
Doubtdispelled wrote:
It isn't your fault, Rum. It's a combination of several things.
This idea of a 'death by a thousand cuts' not being the least of them.
Rumraket wrote:
Surely we can leave this thread alone then, and find other subjects on the forum worth participating in?
Doubtdispelled wrote:Acetone wrote:BECAUSE I FOUND OUT SHE STANDS FOR WIMMINZ RIGHTS!!!
There seems to be no place here on this forum for anyone who argues for women's rights, or even for their viewpoints to be heard, without scorn, derision, misrepresentation, and sheer bigotry.
So you can shove it.
Rachel Bronwyn wrote:This has actually gone from obnoxiousness to very personalised harassment, following posters and importing hostilities towards them from thread to thread. Good job, guys. You must be proud!
Rumraket wrote:
No, we are talking about reality, just reality. Does the shirt, in point of fact, symbolize something in particular?
How do we find out? How do you know what it symbolizes?Doubtdispelled wrote: As it is affected by the kind of thing that is supposedly being discussed in this thread, i.e. sexualised images being presented in a serious environment. A skewed picture of reality with respect to what such a shirt symbolizes.
How does this have any effect on men's reality?
Last I checked we are part of the same reality.Doubtdispelled wrote:Next.
We're pretty far from done.
Men on this forum are contributing to sexism. Because they don't agree about shirtgate? Post examples and outline exactly how a reasonable person should expect that to contribute to a poisoned atmosphere. Also, quite the fucking call out for someone crying persecution and 'harassment'.Rachel Bronwyn wrote:It's the climate that's the problem, not really the specific topics it presents it's self in the most obviously.
And it SUCKS because, and I think DD would agree with me, there are some amazing men on this forum. The vast majority of those contributing to this problem are doing so out of ignorance, not deliberate nastiness, and lots aren't contributing to the problem so much as tolerating it. I totally understand the reasoning behind that attitude but it doesn't work when you're one of the people these shitty attitudes are targeted at.
You're right, it is pretty easy to get miffed when people are posting bullshit.I came back to this forum because I am very fond of some of the posters (and the connections I have made here that I treasure most are predominantly with men.) I don't expect anyone to "rock the boat" in order to keep me around. I'm not any more special than anyone else. I can understand how, when you're not on the recieving end of the bullshit, it's easy to just ignore it. I'm not miffed with anyone doing this, just sad, knowing I'm going to miss some of them.
Should probably take this to the feedback section. They're probably going to require links to specific examples though.I don't have the option to stick my head in the sand unless I abandon my values and no online message board is worth my self-esteem. I've made that mistake with lots of the men in my life from my father to the last guy I dated. I love my dad but our relationship is entirely on my terms because, no, not even he is worth my self esteem! A forum where my values aren't taken seriously and I have to accept that my thoughts and feelings are without value REALLY isn't worth my emotional wellbeing.
Doubtdispelled wrote:Rumraket wrote:that was definitely not my intention
I'm sure it wasn't, as I am sure it isn't of many others.
But the truth is that this is simply not a female-friendly forum.
The sheer weight of the male/female membership numbers virtually guarantee that, and when that is combined with the numbers of males here who present with an anti-female bias, whether they acknowledge it within themselves or not, or even totally deny it even though it is obvious to others, then there is no chance of a fair hearing.
Acetone wrote:Doubtdispelled wrote:Acetone wrote:BECAUSE I FOUND OUT SHE STANDS FOR WIMMINZ RIGHTS!!!
There seems to be no place here on this forum for anyone who argues for women's rights, or even for their viewpoints to be heard, without scorn, derision, misrepresentation, and sheer bigotry.
So you can shove it.
Are you joking? There have been multiple threads where this has occurred. Where the vast majority of members agreed.
Somehow people not agreeing with what happened in this situation is fucking oppression of women's rights and discussion of those rights on the forum or something? So full of shit.
If anything YOU are trying to block the discussion by labelling everyone that doesn't agree as 'white knighters' and posting non-sense rhetoric, ignoring the actual content in posts, pretending to be oppressed etc. etc. etc..
I've yet to see any bigotry posted (except from Rachel when she called everyone white knights)... care to link to some examples? Or is asking you for that an example of harassment and me following you around (as I assume Rachel is talking about from the other thread where she has called out threads for blatant sexism).
Doubtdispelled wrote:
But the truth is that this is simply not a female-friendly forum
The sheer weight of the male/female membership numbers virtually guarantee that and when that is combined with
the numbers of males here who present with an anti-female bias whether they acknowledge it within themselves or
not or even totally deny it even though it is obvious to others then there is no chance of a fair hearing
Skinny Puppy wrote:Is no one allowed a dissenting opinion in this thread?
Skinny Puppy wrote:
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