Love the Sinner, Hate the Sin

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Re: Love the Sinner, Hate the Sin

#41  Postby surreptitious57 » Feb 02, 2012 1:45 am

Tbickle wrote:
So, which is it ? Can we, as humans, judge others or not I understand that judging people based purely on basic emotional responses is not always the best course of action, but we generally tend to judge both people AND their actions using a combination of emotion and logic Stealing is bad why ? Well logic tells me that it is an improper thing that the person has done that has caused harm to the other person My emotional side is the one that makes me want the person to suffer a punishment for their crimes or to incarcerate them due to my emotional response at this logic

The point is that it s all great and happy to pretend that we shouldn t judge others, but we' re humans and we do judge others Sometimes these judgements are beneficial and sometimes they are not but the best thing we can do is apply this judgment to incidents that impact the well being of others or yourself using a controlled emotional response and a solid rationale I can judge religion based on its negative impacts on human existence and the continued grasp it has on the large portion of society. An infection that pits man against man and teaches people that rational thought and logic are traits to be avoided Homosexuality isn t even close to being comparable


I myself no longer judge as have previously stated
but accept that others may not agree with this view
I personally feel that I do not have the moral authority to
do so and refrain from it but others may differ. Course we use
a combination of logic and emotion most of the time anyway but
for me I feel guilty so refrain from doing so however. I have to remind
myself of this whenever I appear to be judging another. It is remarkably hard
to refrain from doing so but yet in spite of this it can be done though not trying to
convert anyone here - this is just a coping mechanism for myself. And am hard wired to
referencing absolutes which explains why I think like this but realise others may not however

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Re: Love the Sinner, Hate the Sin

#42  Postby Godless Infidel » Feb 02, 2012 3:39 am

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*I want to make this absolutely clear for some of you atheists out there, who I can feel are ready to pounce. Theists cannot choose not to believe in God the same way one cannot choose not to believe the sun rises in the East. It is self-evident to some theists that God exists the same way God not-existing is self-evident to some atheists.


I actually agree with this just not the conclusions.

I think it is possible to raise a child is such a way that is impossible for him or her to believe anything other than the scripture of a religion. If you and I were raised in such a way, and our indoctrinators made no mistakes (allowing outside influences etc.), we would be having a very different conversation.

All the more reason to hate the system that makes this possible. It may be more politic to say I'm against the system that makes this possible (true) but I hate it.

Thus: I don't hate theists, I just hate theism. A perfectly reasonable hatred of injustice.

"I don't hate homosexuals, I just hate homosexuality" is entirely different. There is no injustice in homosexuality. The faith based bigotry against it is the injustice.
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Re: Love the Sinner, Hate the Sin

#43  Postby xtraordinaryevidence » Feb 02, 2012 4:36 am

Godless Infidel wrote:I think it is possible to raise a child is such a way that is impossible for him or her to believe anything other than the scripture of a religion. If you and I were raised in such a way, and our indoctrinators made no mistakes (allowing outside influences etc.), we would be having a very different conversation.

All the more reason to hate the system that makes this possible. It may be more politic to say I'm against the system that makes this possible (true) but I hate it.

Thus: I don't hate theists, I just hate theism. A perfectly reasonable hatred of injustice.

"I don't hate homosexuals, I just hate homosexuality" is entirely different. There is no injustice in homosexuality. The faith based bigotry against it is the injustice.


Injustice. That's the answer I seemed to have been looking for. :thumbup:
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#44  Postby Godless Infidel » Feb 02, 2012 5:11 am

:grin: Glad to be of service.
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Re: Love the Sinner, Hate the Sin

#45  Postby iam43 » Feb 02, 2012 8:51 am

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Godless Infidel wrote:Saying "I'm not against homosexuals, just the act" is the same as saying "I'm not against a albinos, just hate that they stay out of the sun". If anyone thinks there is a difference because the sun could hurt or even kill an albino, Consider whether it would hurt to lose your sex life. Consider the suicides.


I've never even heard of people dying because they couldn't have sex... but I suppose there might be some nymphomaniacs who would.


We all die if we can't have sex.

Haha well yeah if you're talking about the species as a whole. But even then, we can just grow ourselves from test tubes nowadays, ya know.


Not without the aid of masturbation which, as I'm sure your aware is a bit of a no-no in a doctrine or two..
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Re: Love the Sinner, Hate the Sin

#46  Postby Zwaarddijk » Feb 02, 2012 12:34 pm

iam43 wrote:
Hnau von Thulcandra wrote:
iam43 wrote:
Hnau von Thulcandra wrote:

I've never even heard of people dying because they couldn't have sex... but I suppose there might be some nymphomaniacs who would.


We all die if we can't have sex.

Haha well yeah if you're talking about the species as a whole. But even then, we can just grow ourselves from test tubes nowadays, ya know.


Not without the aid of masturbation which, as I'm sure your aware is a bit of a no-no in a doctrine or two..

AFAICT, Orthodox Judaism does permit it in that particular case (but not in other cases). I would be surprised if Islam or Catholicism were more strict in the case of artificial insemination.
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Re: Love the Sinner, Hate the Sin

#47  Postby iam43 » Feb 02, 2012 12:39 pm

Zwaarddijk wrote:
iam43 wrote:
Hnau von Thulcandra wrote:
iam43 wrote:

We all die if we can't have sex.

Haha well yeah if you're talking about the species as a whole. But even then, we can just grow ourselves from test tubes nowadays, ya know.


Not without the aid of masturbation which, as I'm sure your aware is a bit of a no-no in a doctrine or two..

AFAICT, Orthodox Judaism does permit it in that particular case (but not in other cases). I would be surprised if Islam or Catholicism were more strict in the case of artificial insemination.


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Re: Love the Sinner, Hate the Sin

#48  Postby Zwaarddijk » Feb 02, 2012 12:40 pm

iam43 wrote:
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Not without the aid of masturbation which, as I'm sure your aware is a bit of a no-no in a doctrine or two..

AFAICT, Orthodox Judaism does permit it in that particular case (but not in other cases). I would be surprised if Islam or Catholicism were more strict in the case of artificial insemination.


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yeah but see, artificial insemination enables those sperms to actually have an effect, whereas in cases where natural insemination just doesn't work, their "sacredness" is wasted on sex.
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#49  Postby iam43 » Feb 02, 2012 12:43 pm

Anything wrong with the quote function? I've just had to re-do it even though it was right first time

Strange....
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#50  Postby iam43 » Feb 02, 2012 12:51 pm

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yeah but see, artificial insemination enables those sperms to actually have an effect, whereas in cases where natural insemination just doesn't work, their "sacredness" is wasted on sex.


So artificial insemination is not man playing god by interfering with his devine plan then?
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Re: Love the Sinner, Hate the Sin

#51  Postby Zwaarddijk » Feb 02, 2012 1:36 pm

iam43 wrote:
Zwaarddijk wrote:
yeah but see, artificial insemination enables those sperms to actually have an effect, whereas in cases where natural insemination just doesn't work, their "sacredness" is wasted on sex.


So artificial insemination is not man playing god by interfering with his devine plan then?

At least not in Judaism, where fertility is considered important, and technical ways of improving or enabling fertility are considered downright holy.
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Re: Love the Sinner, Hate the Sin

#52  Postby purplerat » Feb 02, 2012 3:32 pm

xtraordinaryevidence wrote:Whenever I read or hear someone who's religious say that they aren't against homosexuals themselves, just the act, I immediately assume they are just hiding their bigotry or rationalizing so that they feel better about themselves. But are some atheists any better? Many atheists (including myself on occasion) use the phrase "I don't hate religious people, just their religion."
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I would rephrase "[I hate] their religion" to just "I hate religion". My dislike of religion is not personalized against any individual and I frankly don't care what somebodies personal religion is. What I do care about/hate is how religion impacts me. In this respect the equivalent to hating religion would not be hating homosexuality but rather hating homosexual sex. I, as a straight man, do 'hate' (not exactly the word I'd use except for the purpose of this thread) homosexual sex. That is I would be strongly opposed and have a strong negative reaction to my personally having sex with another man. But two gay men having sex with each other doesn't bother me so there's no reason for me to hate it. Similarly somebody having religious beliefs that doesn't affect me at all, I'm not going to hate it even if I think they are wrong.
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#53  Postby Spearthrower » Feb 02, 2012 7:38 pm

I don't even go so far as to hate religion, I just hate some of the effects it has on its adherents.
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#54  Postby purplerat » Feb 02, 2012 7:50 pm

Exactly. There's nothing to hate about a religion itself. Think of ancient religions which nobody practices anymore and thus have no effect on anybody or anything today. There's no reason to hate the religion, in fact they might be quite interesting and enjoyable to learn about.
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#55  Postby Oldskeptic » Feb 02, 2012 9:41 pm

For this reason, the man who lives by God's standards and not by man's, must needs be a lover of the good, and it follows that he must hate what is evil. Further, since no one is evil by nature, but anyone who is evil is evil because of a perversion of nature, the man who lives by God's standards has a duty of "perfect hatred" (Psalm 139:22) towards those who are evil; that is to say, he should not hate the person because of the fault, nor should he love the fault because of the person. He should hate the fault, but love the man. And when the fault has been cured there will remain only what he ought to love, nothing that he should hate. - Augustine


Not Jesus.

So now, when has this ever been true? Augustine had some pie in the sky ideals, but do they work? Can we turn the original argument on its head or maybe just a few degrees? How about a statement like, "I don't hate serial killers, I just hate serial killing." Or, "I don't hate rapist paedophiles, only rapist paedophilia."

Separating people from their actions makes no sense. If you consider homosexual acts as a crime or a sin, and something that you hate then you are declaring hatred for each. Man and sin.

On the flip side I don't hate people that are religious just because they are religious. I don't even hate their religions. I reserve my hate for people like Pat Robertson, Benny Hinn, Jerry Falwell, Ted Haggard, Jim Jones, and Paul Crouch. On the other side I reserve my hate for Muslim fanatics that preach the same kinds of hatred.

Much of religion of any kind is about preaching hatred, this is a given.

Religion is not about love, it is about separating one group of believers from another using emotions like hate.
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