Will S wrote:science_is_god wrote:The point is, you don't have proof that anything paranormal happened, I however have my experience which for me is enough proof.
But, going by your account, I don't think it
should be enough proof. For I can easily think of at least two explanations which don't involve anything paranormal at all. Of course, you may have further information which rules these explanations out - in which case, I'd be interested to hear what it is.
For example, as you were thinking, you might have been vocalising: saying or whispering something under your breath. Your friend may have heard this (perhaps without even being conscious of having done so) and that might explain how he knew what you were thinking.
Or, perhaps your mind has been tidying up and 'improving' your memory of what actually happened. Perhaps what actually happened was not really quite so impressive as what you remember. This is not, repeat
NOT, to accuse you of dishonesty or stupidity. It's a well known and well researched phenomenon that memory plays tricks on all of us. One good place to start looking at this might be Daniel Dennett's ideas concerning 'multiple drafts of consciousness' in 'Consciousness Explained'.
What investigators routinely do in their experiments is to incorporate precautions which rule out these and other possible non-paranormal explanations. And what normally happens is that the paranormal effects disappear.
that's fair, I cannot rule out what you have said above. to be fair though if I had uttered something barely audible and neither I or my friend had conciously been aware of it it's a bit convenient would you not say? I get what you're saying completely, but do you understand where I'm coming from on this one?
It's not solitary case though. 2 other times in my life stuff has happened which I guess could be described as paranormal.
One time on LSD (I know, I know) I had a conversation with a mate of mine without using words. I know it happened not because of what I perceived (I didn't freak out at all, for some reason I thought it was all very reasonable?) he properly freaked and asked me to "get out of his head". It's very hard to describe but I basically ended up in his head (man that sounds stupid) I guess I said something along the lines of "oh, um, you can hear me can't you" without saying it aloud, he then said that he wanted me to leave, again not aloud. Lastly he said that it was too much, this he did say aloud. a little while later I came up to him and asked him if as far as he was concerned we had indeed had a conversation without words a little earlier. He said yes and that he still didn't feel comfortabl with it at all.
Antoher time a friend of mine was in a coma, officially braindead going by the current scientific definition of a complete cease of brain activity. I was at home in my room and got the sudden feeling he was there with me (again I know how this sounds, really I do). For once I was sober. I proceeded to have a chat with him and we talked about the worthwhile-ness of him "coming back" to reality. the conversation ended with me saying that if it didn't matter either way to him (this is what he had alluded to) then very simply why not come back? and that was that.
About 2 months later when he had recoverd enough for me to go and visit him at home, I went to see him.
He came to meet me and one of the first things he said was that he remembered us having a conversation whilst he was in a coma and he remembered what had been said in that conversation. I said I rememberred it too and relayed what I thought had happened and been said. He was astounded, truly astounded. To this day he gets massively pissed off at the fact that I'm not hugely impressed that it happened whereas he is.
The last one with my friend who was in a coma is the hardest to explain away I would assume. We weren't together so I couldn't have given him any cues as such. We have independant memories of the event which corroborate each others and the fact that he was supposedly brain dead throws yet more problems into the equation.
What do you reckon?