jamest wrote:I do not profess to have no ego, but I'm trying my best to suppress it, for obvious reasons.
Seriously?
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jamest wrote:I do not profess to have no ego, but I'm trying my best to suppress it, for obvious reasons.
Sendraks wrote:purplerat wrote: Well I was responding to your comment where you were saying basically the same thing except that you limited it to places where they are expressly prohibited. I'm just saying there are other reasons than the limited few you suggested to be annoyed with them. Nothing more.
Well I was responding to your comment, taking on what I considered to be the next logical step from what you said. Nothing more.purplerat wrote: No need to project onto me.
I hadn't projected anything onto you, given I attributed no emotions/behaviours/motives to you.
Thommo wrote:
I'm not calling you a dick.
I'm just genuinely amazed that you think you're doing everything you could to suppress your ego, it is wholly incompatible with your posting habits.
Let me give you an example: Compare yourself to an average forum poster here, or even to a sub-average poster like me (and to clarify - I'm not ego free, and I'm not trying) who talks about their education more? How intelligent they are? How intelligent they think their interlocutors are? How good their reasoning skills are? How they compare to historical figures recognised for their incredible ability or genius?
All of those are clear signs of not only having an ego, but imposing it into their ordinary conversations.
See what I'm getting at?
jamest wrote:"Everything"? I never said that.
jamest wrote:Indeed, I've just stated that I'm not even sure what I'm supposed to be doing, since the difference between being a philosopher and being a spiritual person (based upon that philosophy) is immense.
jamest wrote: One doesn't just change automatically upon a realisation of a truth. Old habits/attitudes are deep-rooted. And when you're alone, as I am (since it'smy philosophy), devoid of help, then reconciling one's behaviour with one's beliefs is a long hard road.
jamest wrote:The fact that I have a degree was mined out of me by people refusing to take me seriously, taking the piss.
jamest wrote:You see, people in forums such as this have been taking the piss out of me for close to two decades. Indeed, it took me a long time to just be explicit about the fact that I have a 1st Open Degree from the OU, based upon philosophy/psychology/sociology. I've received a lot of shit about my lack of education, though was reluctant to talk about it for quite a while after I acquired said reward. I only did so, eventually, to put the record straight with a view to appeasing such people. The fact is that I am not exceptionally learned, but I am capable of being so. The good thing about studying philosophy at university level, for me, was to realise just how shite current materialism/physicalism is. Other than that, I don't give two shits about my degree. Really, honestly, I haven't impressed myself by acquiring one. Numerous people have done the same thing, even you I suspect. Even if you haven't, I still acknowledge your intelligence.
jamest wrote:I do (still) have an ego. I've just explicitly stated that in an earlier post. Therefore, don't be surprised to find signs of it. I'm not presenting myself here as the 'next Christ'. Never have, never will.
jamest wrote:You appear to be getting at the fact that I'm not perfect. I agree. Which means what, exactly? That I should stfu and put up with utter crap?
Recognising Egoic Behaviour
Recognising egoic behaviour in yourself and others makes the ego far easier to deal with. What used to feel like terrible situations can now be transcended.
When you know what to look for, it is easier to make the distinction between ego and the true self, whether it is within you or someone else. This seeing makes egoic situations far easier to deal with.
Egoic Behaviour
Some examples of egoic behaviour to look out for in yourself and others include:
wanting to be right and prove someone else wrong.
caring about what others think of you.
being identified with thoughts and emotions
reliving the past in your mind.
acting out a "future" scenario in your mind.
being offended or feeling hurt if someone criticises or insults you, or feeling the need to defend yourself in conversation or argument.
feeling good about yourself after someone praises you.
feeling very possessive of anything - e.g. a possession, person or a belief system i.e. this is MINE
feeling separate from everything and everyone.
telling yourself a story about what is happening or what your life is like.
full of "what if's".
trying to reach a future point for fulfilment, ignoring the present moment.
resisting what is.
trying to "be someone"
….there are many more that you will notice for yourself.
jamest wrote: One doesn't just change automatically upon a realisation of a truth. Old habits/attitudes are deep-rooted. And when you're alone, as I am (since it'smy philosophy), devoid of help, then reconciling one's behaviour with one's beliefs is a long hard road.
Maybe, I'm not really here to discuss your philosophy, you already know my opinions about that.
But if you're here to discuss an idea, then you can probably do it without ever using a sentence with "I" or "me" (classic signs of ego and perspective that those are). And again, without presumption, you aren't really doing that. Compared to other posters, you do a lot more of that than the average.
So I'm just genuinely surprised that this is the best you think you can do. I think you can do better, if that's your goal (and it's perfectly fine if you decide it's not one of your goals).
jamest wrote:The fact that I have a degree was mined out of me by people refusing to take me seriously, taking the piss.
That's an excuse, and it's an ego-involved excuse. I know for a fact that there are dozens, and dozens of graduates on ratskep, it's actually an overwhelming majority. In fact there are a large number of postgraduates, and even career scientists and PhDs.
jamest wrote:You see, people in forums such as this have been taking the piss out of me for close to two decades. Indeed, it took me a long time to just be explicit about the fact that I have a 1st Open Degree from the OU, based upon philosophy/psychology/sociology. I've received a lot of shit about my lack of education, though was reluctant to talk about it for quite a while after I acquired said reward. I only did so, eventually, to put the record straight with a view to appeasing such people. The fact is that I am not exceptionally learned, but I am capable of being so. The good thing about studying philosophy at university level, for me, was to realise just how shite current materialism/physicalism is. Other than that, I don't give two shits about my degree. Really, honestly, I haven't impressed myself by acquiring one. Numerous people have done the same thing, even you I suspect. Even if you haven't, I still acknowledge your intelligence.
See, this is a whole paragraph about me and you. It doesn't matter whether it's a high opinion of one or other of us. The very premise is ego driven. It's about justifying identities and personas and egos.
If you are trying to be ego free, here's a salient lesson. Don't write stuff like this. Just accept it does not matter at all, ever, what you think of me. Don't bring it up. Bingo - one step closer to your goal.
jamest wrote:
That laughter alone was uncalled for, as it speaks volumes of your insincerity. I don't really give a fuck, regardless. Hundreds of characters such as you have been trying to shaft me for two decades.
I'm still around. Going nowhere, until one of your (plural) plots actually works. Regardless, as has been repeatedly proven with you and others of your ilk during my tenure here and elsewhere, I wish you well. Best wishes.
Thommo wrote:Again, you could cut down on the ego (recall - the conversation is about your desire to do that) by not comparing yourself to Jesus, one of the most admired figures in all of history. Try that.
jamest wrote:I've already informed you that there is a degree of ego left in me, and that I'm not presenting myself as the Christ.
How many times do you want me to repeat this?
jamest wrote:Thommo wrote:Again, you could cut down on the ego (recall - the conversation is about your desire to do that) by not comparing yourself to Jesus, one of the most admired figures in all of history. Try that.
As I've just informed you that I'm NOT comparing myself to Jesus, your response is very odd.
SafeAsMilk wrote:You can stop repeating it, because it completely misses the point. He isn't chiding you for having some ego left, he's pointing out that there's more ego in your posts than is found in people's who aren't making any attempt at all to curtail their ego. You're going to take this as an assault on you, calling you a dick or an asshole or something like that, but it isn't, Thommo's is a salient observation. Ego is also preventing you from realizing this.
SafeAsMilk wrote:jamest wrote:I've already informed you that there is a degree of ego left in me, and that I'm not presenting myself as the Christ.
How many times do you want me to repeat this?
You can stop repeating it, because it completely misses the point. He isn't chiding you for having some ego left, he's pointing out that there's more ego in your posts than is found in people's who aren't making any attempt at all to curtail their ego. You're going to take this as an assault on you, calling you a dick or an asshole or something like that, but it isn't, Thommo's is a salient observation. Ego is also preventing you from realizing this.
Thommo wrote:SafeAsMilk wrote:You can stop repeating it, because it completely misses the point. He isn't chiding you for having some ego left, he's pointing out that there's more ego in your posts than is found in people's who aren't making any attempt at all to curtail their ego. You're going to take this as an assault on you, calling you a dick or an asshole or something like that, but it isn't, Thommo's is a salient observation. Ego is also preventing you from realizing this.
Totally not goading, or shitposting at all, but you should check out how your prediction fared in the "not Jordan Bennett" thread.
(ok, maybe goading and shitposting a little)
jamest wrote:SafeAsMilk wrote:jamest wrote:I've already informed you that there is a degree of ego left in me, and that I'm not presenting myself as the Christ.
How many times do you want me to repeat this?
You can stop repeating it, because it completely misses the point. He isn't chiding you for having some ego left, he's pointing out that there's more ego in your posts than is found in people's who aren't making any attempt at all to curtail their ego. You're going to take this as an assault on you, calling you a dick or an asshole or something like that, but it isn't, Thommo's is a salient observation. Ego is also preventing you from realizing this.
Denouncing one's ego isn't an act of denouncing one's abilitiy to think.
I mean, this isn't jamest talking, as per my philosophy.
I'm pretty sure that Jesus himself must have come across as an arrogant bastard. But only to arrogant bastards such as Romans and Jews... amd materialists.
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