mcgruff wrote:Weaver wrote:Maybe next time you're around humanity you could act like you give a fuck.
Maybe you could stop being such a patronising git.
And if you're going to presume to sneer at other people's imagined lack of knowledge of conditions in jail you could at least answer the fucking question: what percentage of people who have been in jail for a few days and who expect to get out in a few more commit suicide?
First of all such data is impossible to compose second of all what evidence aside from speculation do you have that she expected to get out in a few days?
Weaver wrote:Also, though YOU think you know she'd be released in a few days time (what assurance do you have of this, by the way), is it clear that SHE knew this? Or that she trusted anyone telling her this, given the shit she'd been put through by an agitated cop already?
The court made a special, ground-breaking arrangement for Sandra Bland which has never before been seen in the legal system. If she handed over $5,000 they'd let her out of jail. I think they called it "bail" or something. What do I know though.
You do know when you pay bail you are released from custody immediately. Do you know she was actively waiting for bail to be posted? How? The $5,000 is also not bail. It is the bond to be paid that would be refunded at court. The bail is the 10% paid to the bondsman i.e. the $500 which is not refundable so the bondsman can post the $5,000 for her.
Our bail system is broken and needs reforming for sure. However, the point being we are unaware of her actually having access to that $500 or anyone with the urgency to bail her out. So once again you are speculating. By all accounts the family was struggling to raise fucking $500 (which shows the kind of world we fucking live in) and so Bland was not certain when bail would be posted. She may have been waiting but she had no certainty when or if it would be. So your assertion that she knew she'd be out in a couple of days is nonsense.
Weaver wrote:People who are depressed, particularly those who are suicidally depressed, frequently don't reveal it in any significant manner, or express that they've given up hope.
Weaver wrote:The simple fact is that jail is a depressing and depressive environment, and that it is not beyond reason that someone in jail for a few days could exacerbate existing depression to become more suicidal - and that could push them to actual suicidal acts.
We have to be careful with language. For example, it's depressing to see other posters getting angry and personal for no justifiable reason but it doesn't make me want to kill myself. Probably. Of course I can't say for certain what you'll do next or how I might react to that.
This right here shows you know absolutely next to fucking nothing about depression, anxiety or suicide.
We're talking specifically about suicide and mental illness not simply being angry, frustrated or scared. It's possible that her mental state deteriorated in a very short space of time in response to confinement which she knew to be temporary but it doesn't seem likely, even with a history of depression. It's possible that if this did happen she might not have displayed any signs but it's not very likely. This isn't a slow build-up type of event but a sudden trauma.
1) Suicides don't have to be a build-up reaction. Many suicides are NOT BUILD UP REACTIONS. They are sudden and out of the blue and only in the irony of hindsight can people actually piece together maybe something was wrong, but even then it is near impossible to catch unless you actively look for it. As Purplerat correctly asserted if suicidal thoughts are so easy to catch than why so many of them? Or are you just special and enlightened?
2) YOU HAVE NO FUCKING CLUE WHAT HER MENTAL STATE IS!!!!!!!
My fucking god the amount of drivel you are posting on this subject matter is so stupid my brain feels like it is leaking.
My mother suffers from numerous anxiety disorders, depression, and self-harm thoughts. Suicide is a fucking nightmarish reality for me that I have to be careful of what I say and do around my mom because I can very well find myself without a mother. If I was not concerned with privacy issues I would gladly give you a recording of the phone call she had with my brother just the other night. She was happy, pleasant, enjoying life, etc. despite the fact that she had just received news that her food stamps were being reduced and we would be struggling to pay for food. She had just spent the minutes prior to that phone call crying and shrieking at the walls. But could you tell from the phone call? Nope. She didn't want my brother to worry.
There is no fucking way through the recordings we have of her that you can derive her current mental state. No fucking way. Unless you are some magic shrink.
If you roll the dice often enough edge cases do happen of course but at this point in time the question of murder or some kind of maltreatment is still very much alive.
No. In all honesty it is not. Maltreatment is not exclusive to murder though. We know she was maltreated in the jail. We know her situation is one giant fuck up of the justice system. But murder? There is no strong compelling reason to suspect murder at this point. Until more evidence is revealed all current evidence is pointing towards suicide.