Church tells dying man he can't have his funeral there..

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Church tells dying man he can't have his funeral there..

#1  Postby DoctorE » Jul 25, 2019 2:52 pm

A Tennessee man, who is gay, says that a church will not hold a funeral service for his father because of his sexuality. Now, local residents are criticizing the church for its “sinful” discrimination.
“They’re punishing my dad for a lifestyle choice that I’ve made. It’s not me laying up there in a casket, it’s him,” Jessie Goodman told Chattanooga, Tenn. news station WTVC.
Goodman’s 71-year-old father is ill and his family believes he only has a few days to live. The family requested to withhold Goodman’s father identity to protect his privacy.
Before passing on, Goodman told WTVC that his father expressed only two final wishes. He wanted to have his funeral service at Lee's Chapel Baptist Church, the first church he ever attended, and to have his son sing a Christian song called “The Anchor Holds.”
Goodman, who is a hairstylist, told the news station he was making arrangements for the service at the Sweetwater, Tenn. chapel when the church leadership discovered that Goodman was engaged to a man named Brandon Smitty.
Now Goodman says Lee’s Chapel Baptist Church is refusing to host his father’s funeral service because his sexual orientation goes against the pastor and some of its congregants’ beliefs.

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#2  Postby Alan B » Jul 25, 2019 4:08 pm

It's obvious that this dying man had unknowingly harboured the 'Gay' gene and passed it onto his son. We can't have the Afterlife contaminated with this sort of thing now, can we?

Fucking morons. :yuk:
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#3  Postby aufbahrung » Jul 25, 2019 4:39 pm

What would Jesus do? Tell him he can't have a funeral at all....? :thumbup:
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#4  Postby Agi Hammerthief » Jul 25, 2019 5:57 pm

[...] They’re punishing my dad for a lifestyle choice that I’ve made. [...]

he needs to work on his rethoric :roll:
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#5  Postby scott1328 » Jul 25, 2019 6:23 pm

There is no pain so horrific, nor any sorrow too great that religion can't make worse.
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#6  Postby Seabass » Jul 25, 2019 6:54 pm

The religion of love strikes again...
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#7  Postby DougC » Jul 25, 2019 7:00 pm

scott1328 summed it up nicely.
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#8  Postby mattthomas » Jul 26, 2019 8:06 am

Agi Hammerthief wrote:
[...] They’re punishing my dad for a lifestyle choice that I’ve made. [...]

he needs to work on his rethoric :roll:

Yes, I noticed that too :what:
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#9  Postby Spearthrower » Jul 26, 2019 1:20 pm

Remember it's just a small snippet of conversation which isn't supported contextually. The lifestyle choice he made might have been to be open about his sexuality rather than living a lie.
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#10  Postby Agi Hammerthief » Jul 26, 2019 1:31 pm

Spearthrower wrote:Remember it's just a small snippet of conversation which isn't supported contextually. The lifestyle choice he made might have been to be open about his sexuality rather than living a lie.

good point :cheers:
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#11  Postby electricwhiteboy » Jul 26, 2019 1:34 pm

scott1328 wrote:There is no pain so horrific, nor any sorrow too great that religion can't make worse.


Speaking as someone whose mother was buried in a Christian ceremony, against her wishes, and my will, so as "not to upset Christian members of my family" I whole heartedly agree with this statement. I disowned my family over that one.
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#12  Postby Scot Dutchy » Jul 28, 2019 7:49 am

He should be glad being saved from such indignation.
My dad suffered the same fate thanks to my mother's willingness to accept the family pressure. He was a life long socialist and never had any theistic leanings.
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