Posted: Jun 20, 2011 8:51 pm
I presumed this too, for sure.
I did, however, take this rejection personally when I was told he had disowned his mother; she wrote a xmas card to my mother for several years. It just appeared to me an awful effort to cover ones tracks, or erasure, for a man in his (best guess) mid-40s.
I still ponder the litigation route; me and my mother lived a frugal life, I think that even if he could not support us something, even just an infrequent presence, would have made my path quite a different one. But it is tiresome to think about, i'll either have to bite that bullet or bury the emotions deeper still.
Thanks for your thoughts.
I did, however, take this rejection personally when I was told he had disowned his mother; she wrote a xmas card to my mother for several years. It just appeared to me an awful effort to cover ones tracks, or erasure, for a man in his (best guess) mid-40s.
I still ponder the litigation route; me and my mother lived a frugal life, I think that even if he could not support us something, even just an infrequent presence, would have made my path quite a different one. But it is tiresome to think about, i'll either have to bite that bullet or bury the emotions deeper still.
Thanks for your thoughts.