Posted: May 20, 2012 1:39 am
by reddix
I think the lady is trying to justify all the hard work she has had to go through to have a healthy outcome for her child. Kudos to her really. I can't say whether every child would be so lucky to have such dedicated parents. I think it's better to know in advance to put the child up for adoption and choose good parents than ending up resenting the child.

BTW- I absolutely hate debates related to parenting issues...(have you ever wondered why "parenting" has it's own section at the library? .. I think it's one of the biggest un-tackled sources of woo )... My cynical parenting debate adage goes: "It's okay to have an opinion, as long as it agrees with mine." :smile: