Posted: Jan 27, 2015 11:03 am
cavarka9 wrote:last week i was wondering whether it is moral to help him, now i just dont want to, the manner he has spoken to me is just unbelievable.
He's 14! Saying stupid stuff is what 14 year olds do. He's barely stopped being a foetus and is, in the manner of all teenage post-foetuses, convinced he knows it all and is trying to assert and define himself.
As has already been suggested, less overt teaching and overall less pressure on him. The more you push, the harder he will push back. That's teenage rebellion in its most classic form.
I also support the suggestion of introducing him to some genuine white American Christian bigots. Shock therapy, but it might be the wake up call he needs.