Posted: Jan 29, 2015 11:19 pm
I'm With Stupid wrote:I was speaking to a British Indian friend the other day and she said she used to know an Indian who refused to talk to any other Indians and would only hang out with white people. She suggested that it's something to do with self-hatred. I think the Christian thing is a red herring. Christian is just substitute for Western/American. But I don't know what to do about someone who hates their own culture. It might just be a teenager thing, but the person my friend was talking about was an adult. Refused to have any Indian friends on Facebook and everything.
yep, fits the picture perfectly, its all fine. That is not most of my problem, my problem is his sociopath like behavior, not caring about others and yet taking it for granted that his parents and me and many other Indians shall all just help him anyway. There is a sociopathic personality, we are mere steps for his wish fulfillment, some one to use and throw. He sees this in transnational terms, pay me money, his parents with money.
I am getting him to do metta, kind meditation practice, hopefully, it might do something, he doesnt like doing it. Lets see.