Posted: Aug 09, 2010 6:09 am
Not facing reality is irrational most of the time. Like in this example, the first question to ask is, are they ever coming back? "i don't know so i am going to sit and hope" is probably the most irrational answer one can give. If you put enough effort into searching for them some answers should arise. And if they don't then you would think some effort has been put into covering their tracks so therefore it would be time to move on.