Posted: Aug 11, 2010 5:43 am
by inkaStepa
Wow I really appreciate the comments made here!! Your guys never dissapoint :grin:

Yea I found out one of the girls was actually left by her bf, he contacted her once in a blue moon, confessed his undying love, and then would disapear for another couples months saying "things are crazy but once I settle down I'll come see you." She hasn't heard from him in a year (except a few days every like 5 months) and still says she only wants him. I think it's got everything to do with the pathways in the brain- she thinks of him and gets the rush- sees him and the messages are filling her brain with the feel-good properties. A year is pretty extensive though. She's not ugly either (we're friends now lol) and I've been trying to figure her out. My theory is that when she realizes he's obviously using her for $ she'll forget about him (I'm trying to reverse the signal).