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I think every social topic can be hugely confusing, conflicting, and contradicting, almost no matter how much you'll try to make it scientific. It's culture, it's fucked up, and we do what feels good, and I don't think overthinking it is healthy. It's just asking "why sex feels good? why does touching boobs feel good? why does grabbing a piece of ass feels good? why does sucking cocks make you feel good?" over and over and over again, till you're just wasting time and not making any progress. Hey, being the other gender makes you feel good? godspeed, all I gotta say...I'm not gonna waste time to understand your personal psychology. I reckon what is male or what is female is defined different by males and females, and many females vary heavily in their femininity-masculinity just as much as man do. In fact, just because a male turned female, doesn't mean that individual has to be feminine. The diversity, complexity, and inexplicability of life and human culture is just another one of its charms.

That's my PoV about it, in general.