Posted: Apr 29, 2010 9:35 am
by Aern Rakesh
Doubtdispelled wrote:
Until now I would have asserted that I am not in the least afraid of change, certainly not in the way that some people will go out of their way to avoid it, I have made many life changes and decisions that only I could make, but the central thing running through it all is that I have always -since I was introduced to it by my first husband at 18 - been a smoker, whether it was just 3 or 4 a day, or more. That I have not been able to change. So why not?

Well, you've gone through a huge change recently, i.e. losing your job and then a huge change in lifestyle doing all the sewing. And you've got (potentially) another big bill looming (i.e. the plumbing). If I were in your shoes and one side of me was trying to get me to give up, say, comfort food, I'd tell that side to get stuffed! ;)