Posted: Dec 17, 2015 6:44 pm
Evert wrote:
But society does not allow one to take a step back and just be an observer
This is entirely untrue because I myself am an observer that has stepped back and society has zero problem with
it. Furthermore I totally accept my observer status and I find it particularly beneficial with regard to being more
objective and less judgemental. And so as a consequence of this I am now a more balanced human being. Indeed
I am more balanced than I have ever been in my adult life and I will continue to be even more so as time goes on
I do not think on the basis of what you have posted here this could apply to you. My own entirely non professional
opinion is that you exacerbate the situation by overanalysing it and that your mind is permanently set in negative
mode. But maybe talking to others here like you have has helped in some small way and if it has I would certainly
urge you to carry on doing that. I would also say that ultimately the solution has to come from within not without
That is to say it must be you who wants to make yourself better. Because after all it is your mind and yours alone