Posted: Jul 22, 2017 5:21 pm
By that reasoning, not wanting to be an arachnophobe is a defence of arachnidity. While compatible, they're not identical, are they? There are wholly selfish reasons to reject and attempt to overcome irrational fears or hatreds.
Thinking on this issue I revert to the theory that homophobic people fail to realise that if they were gay they'd still enjoy a pleasurable sex/fantasy life. They fear the loss of their straight sex/fantasy life.
Given that homophobes tend to voice the same fears and/or hatreds towards bisexuals as they do towards gay people, I'm not sure that this explains very much about homophobia.