Posted: Jul 22, 2017 7:43 pm
by SpeedOfSound
Keep It Real wrote:
Cito di Pense wrote:
Keep It Real wrote:I think the agenda is that hey - you'd better not be homophobic or everybody will think you're gay, and given that you're homophobic that's one of the last things you'd want, so if you are homophobic you'd better not tell anybody or act on it in any way - thereby protecting the gay community.


Another thing you could try would be to quit blowing out plaintive rationalizations based on some sort of anxiety that somebody might think you're gay if you're homophobic. There are plenty of good reasons not to be homophobic. Worrying about whether somebody thinks you're homophobic (and hence, might be gay) is probably the least of your worries, innit?

I wouldn't mind if I was gay - that's how I got over my homophobia. If you mind if you're gay, you're gonna be homophobic methinks.

I don't care if I 'turn gay' overnight. I have no iron in the dating fire. I am meaning something else by homophobic.