Posted: Oct 31, 2017 8:20 pm
But not everyone realises their orientation in their teens
Some men have wives and children before they come out as gay. Whether they are repressing their sexuality I cannot say
Though repressing aspects of ones psyche is something that can be done where said aspect for whatever reason cannot be tolerated by the conscious mind though it can cause more trauma and so therapy would be a better option than repression
Or perhaps strictly technical bisexuality (I, for instance, really couldn't get it up with a man IMO....hope that doesn't breach the FUA : /) or there's also the vertiginous homophobic collapse explanation (if psychogenesis can cause this I'm pretty fucking certain it can cause this). Who needs a therapist to cause iatrogenic thoughts/fears of repressed homosexuality when kids are getting accused (sic) of being gay in the primary school playground? Perhaps it needn't even be a vertiginous fear once the iatrogenic seed is planted....perhaps people simply make a concrete decision/leap/effect sometimes...if they obsess about it...come on KIR people obsessing about sex? Pull the other one.