Posted: Jun 16, 2013 2:16 pm
by Matthew Shute
You can, of course.

There also seems to be a false dichotomy bandied about: either he/she is your friend OR you think about having sex with him/her. Why wouldn't it be possible to have a friend you thought about having sex with? Thoughts are not equivalent to actions. Sex itself might complicate a friendship if it does happen; but it wouldn't be impossible to continue the friendship. So yes, whatever you think or don't think, regarding sex, friendship with anyone of any gender is possible.