Posted: Nov 09, 2017 4:18 pm
by zulumoose
Bad move. Now you have dropped your neighbour in it as well.

Lots of guys think it is fine to air all their personal perversions in front of other men, I have heard quite a few. Probably the only right thing to do is make them aware that it is actually uncomfortable for you, and that others do not generally share their desires. I think a lot of them do it because it every time they are not called out it normalises things for them, which reinforces and emboldens them, not something you want to feel responsible for.

The hardest line I could take without evidence of their wrongdoing, is to make them aware that you have been put in the uncomfortable position of having to weigh up whether to report them as a possible suspect should anything happen to those girls in the future. That will make them think twice at least about mouthing off.