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TMB wrote:What combination of parent and child behavior is required to devlop this kind of profile and ambition to make themselves in this image.
Ihavenofingerprints wrote:What sort of person decides to take up the job of rating 6 year old girls?
igorfrankensteen wrote:For the sake of having this be more than a simple, standard bashing of all things "child beauty pageant," I want to point out that there ARE children who literally spring from the womb desirous of doing what ever it takes to have the worlds attention focused on themselves. It's actually illustrative of what human nature is really all about, in that respect.
igorfrankensteen wrote: Now, there IS no way for an onlooker to easily tell the difference between the children who are victims of egotistical parents, and those who are themselves caught up in the drive to be the center of attention, and it's harder still to know within the latter group, which ones are DIRECTLY interested in what they are doing, and the ones who are just copying stuff they've seen on TV, or mimicking mom (or dad).
I suspect that child beauty pageants got started from the CHILDREN wanting to do them originally, as part of living out a fantasy, just as male kids often form "armies" and go to "war," or form "teams' and duke it out on the playing fields. The parents cater to the kids as part of helping them develop skills to use later in life.
igorfrankensteen wrote: And don't think that child beauty contestants gain NOTHING from doing what they do, even if they never win anything directly from it. The socialization skills, and the recognition of the connection between work and practice and accomplishment are HUGE good things that these people can take away with them. As with all childhood endeavors, there are some who are actually hurt by the process, but that by itself doesn't mean that the whole enterprise is bad or wrong, any more than the fact that team sports can permanently screw up some children's psyche, makes THAT developmental program a bad thing.
Finally, I take issue with the (I think hypocritical) people who posted here, cutting on this child for not being attractive enough. They should take a good long look in a philosophical mirror, and wake up to the fact that THEY are choosing to take the PURELY HARMFUL side, in SUPPORT of the beauty-pageant nonsense they are pretending to criticize.
igorfrankensteen wrote:
Finally, I take issue with the (I think hypocritical) people who posted here, cutting on this child for not being attractive enough. They should take a good long look in a philosophical mirror, and wake up to the fact that THEY are choosing to take the PURELY HARMFUL side, in SUPPORT of the beauty-pageant nonsense they are pretending to criticize.
For the sake of having this be more than a simple, standard bashing of all things "child beauty pageant," I want to point out that there ARE children who literally spring from the womb desirous of doing what ever it takes to have the worlds attention focused on themselves. It's actually illustrative of what human nature is really all about, in that respect.
Now, there IS no way for an onlooker to easily tell the difference between the children who are victims of egotistical parents, and those who are themselves caught up in the drive to be the center of attention, and it's harder still to know within the latter group, which ones are DIRECTLY interested in what they are doing, and the ones who are just copying stuff they've seen on TV, or mimicking mom (or dad).
I suspect that child beauty pageants got started from the CHILDREN wanting to do them originally, as part of living out a fantasy, just as male kids often form "armies" and go to "war," or form "teams' and duke it out on the playing fields. The parents cater to the kids as part of helping them develop skills to use later in life.
And don't think that child beauty contestants gain NOTHING from doing what they do, even if they never win anything directly from it. The socialization skills, and the recognition of the connection between work and practice and accomplishment are HUGE good things that these people can take away with them.
As with all childhood endeavors, there are some who are actually hurt by the process, but that by itself doesn't mean that the whole enterprise is bad or wrong, any more than the fact that team sports can permanently screw up some children's psyche, makes THAT developmental program a bad thing.
Finally, I take issue with the (I think hypocritical) people who posted here, cutting on this child for not being attractive enough. They should take a good long look in a philosophical mirror, and wake up to the fact that THEY are choosing to take the PURELY HARMFUL side, in SUPPORT of the beauty-pageant nonsense they are pretending to criticize.
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