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#81  Postby z8000783 » Jun 16, 2011 12:21 pm

By questions and answers or tests as well?

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#82  Postby Fallible » Jun 16, 2011 12:36 pm

Who, me? Discussing my symptoms, mental health assessments, risk assessment, etc.
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#83  Postby z8000783 » Jun 16, 2011 12:58 pm

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#84  Postby Gallstones » Jun 16, 2011 10:30 pm

Durro wrote:Yes, you have some very valid points there Gallstones and thanks for pointing out some of the differences between clinical depression and manic depression. Their treatment and prognosis are often quite different.

My personal concern for people with manic depression are twofold - firstly, as you said, the symptoms are sometimes transitory (or even neglibible with effective treatment) and therefore I would hope that someone wouldn't decide to euthanize when a large percentage of their life could conceivably be spent in a functional state. I doubt that many advocates for medically supervised euthanasia would consider manic depression as reasonable grounds for assisted suicide. And secondly, I'd hope that the decision to euthanize themselves or suicide doesn't occur when they are in a depressive state.


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#85  Postby Durro » Jun 16, 2011 10:45 pm

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#86  Postby Gallstones » Jun 17, 2011 5:24 am

In regards to manic depression, suicide most often occurs during transition stages between depression and mania.
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#87  Postby Nicko » Jun 17, 2011 4:18 pm

Gallstones wrote:In regards to manic depression, suicide most often occurs during transition stages between depression and mania.


Exactly. The "dager zone" of irrational suicide is fairly small. It requires a conjunction (sorry to put it this way Gallstones) between hating one's life and having enough motivation to take action.

Regardless, the decision to end one's life can be rational (although Durro's points are very relevant). Depression itself can be rational. I posted part 1 of Whose Life Is It Anyway? for a reason. In the play (not sure if the scene is in the film) the assertion is made that the guy played by Richard Dreyfuss is "rationally depressed". In other words, it is a rational outcome of his inability to perform any of the activities that would give his life meaning for him to feel bad about this fact. The point of the story is that, even given the best mental state possible, Dreyfuss' character would still find his existence as a quadraplegic meaningless and futile.
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#88  Postby Gallstones » Jun 17, 2011 8:52 pm

Nicko wrote:
Gallstones wrote:In regards to manic depression, suicide most often occurs during transition stages between depression and mania.


Exactly. The "dager zone" of irrational suicide is fairly small. It requires a conjunction (sorry to put it this way Gallstones) between hating one's life and having enough motivation to take action.

Regardless, the decision to end one's life can be rational (although Durro's points are very relevant). Depression itself can be rational. I posted part 1 of Whose Life Is It Anyway? for a reason. In the play (not sure if the scene is in the film) the assertion is made that the guy played by Richard Dreyfuss is "rationally depressed". In other words, it is a rational outcome of his inability to perform any of the activities that would give his life meaning for him to feel bad about this fact. The point of the story is that, even given the best mental state possible, Dreyfuss' character would still find his existence as a quadraplegic meaningless and futile.


That is how it was explained to me and what I have read.

The phenomenon also applies to clinical depression when treatment is starting to have affect and the person is starting to feel better.


In some cases there is a recurrent aspect of impulsivity. In that a person is just going about his/her normal business and an opportunity, or perceived opportunity, presents where the person has to pause and think about availing him/herself of the opportunity or carrying on with whatever tasks s/he was already tending to. And I venture to state, that those impulsive moments don't seem to be limited to any particular mood state.

I don't know if persons who experience this disclose it to professionals or family or friends; maybe they don't remember later.
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#89  Postby epepke » Jun 17, 2011 11:16 pm

Gallstones wrote:The phenomenon also applies to clinical depression when treatment is starting to have affect and the person is starting to feel better.


This is a commonly held belief. I question it. I present an alternative explanation.

This phenomenon has mostly been observed in teenage boys. Now, SSRIs can be useful. However, they take a long time to work, and it's often a crap shoot to find the right medication.

There is another thing that SSRIs often do, and they do it a lot more quickly than they have an effect on depression. They often produce anorgasmia and sometimes impotence.

So, you take a teenage boy, who is depressed, and probably his only pleasure in life is whacking off. Then you give him drugs that make that impossible, and act all surprised when their suicidal ideation and suicide itself goes up.

However, people are uncomfortable with the idea that whacking off is a lot of fun, let alone that it may constitute some solace for teenage boys. So there needs to be an alternate explanation that makes people smug and happy.
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#90  Postby Gallstones » Jun 17, 2011 11:25 pm

epepke wrote:
Gallstones wrote:The phenomenon also applies to clinical depression when treatment is starting to have affect and the person is starting to feel better.


This is a commonly held belief. I question it. I present an alternative explanation.

This phenomenon has mostly been observed in teenage boys. Now, SSRIs can be useful. However, they take a long time to work, and it's often a crap shoot to find the right medication.

There is another thing that SSRIs often do, and they do it a lot more quickly than they have an effect on depression. They often produce anorgasmia and sometimes impotence.

So, you take a teenage boy, who is depressed, and probably his only pleasure in life is whacking off. Then you give him drugs that make that impossible, and act all surprised when their suicidal ideation and suicide itself goes up.

However, people are uncomfortable with the idea that whacking off is a lot of fun, let alone that it may constitute some solace for teenage boys. So there needs to be an alternate explanation that makes people smug and happy.


Ehhhh, I think it is more than a belief.
And teenage boys are hardly representative of the whole of suicides. Anorgasmia will be present in teenage girls and adult women---more females are diagnoses with depression than males--and adult males taking SSRIs too. Do teenage girls, adult women and adult men value the solace of masturbation less than teenage boys do--significantly to the point that it pushes teenage boys over the edge but not the others?

I find your hypothesis a bit incredible.


I can fully accept that the anorgasmia would be a significant factor in noncompliance and refusal to take meds.
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#91  Postby epepke » Jun 18, 2011 2:06 am

Gallstones wrote:And teenage boys are hardly representative of the whole of suicides.


They are, however, the group that originally instigated the warnings for suicides based on SSRIs.

Anorgasmia will be present in teenage girls and adult women---more females are diagnoses with depression than males--and adult males taking SSRIs too. Do teenage girls, adult women and adult men value the solace of masturbation less than teenage boys do--significantly to the point that it pushes teenage boys over the edge but not the others?


As far as I have been able to tell, SSRIs do not have nearly as much in the way of "sexual side-effects" on females as they do on males.
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#92  Postby Gallstones » Jun 18, 2011 2:22 am

epepke wrote:
Gallstones wrote:And teenage boys are hardly representative of the whole of suicides.


They are, however, the group that originally instigated the warnings for suicides based on SSRIs.
So, they were the group that instigated. Doesn't mean they are special in any way. I think one has to investigate for all factors before assuming that teenage boys are different than all other affected groups.


epepke wrote:
Anorgasmia will be present in teenage girls and adult women---more females are diagnoses with depression than males--and adult males taking SSRIs too. Do teenage girls, adult women and adult men value the solace of masturbation less than teenage boys do--significantly to the point that it pushes teenage boys over the edge but not the others?


As far as I have been able to tell, SSRIs do not have nearly as much in the way of "sexual side-effects" on females as they do on males.


As far as I have been able to tell---they do.
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#93  Postby Gallstones » Jun 18, 2011 2:57 am

This is all a nice discoursive exercise for intellectuals, but the fact is--when real life intervenes with theory--it doesn't matter if a person has a reasoned decision or not; or if it is legal, people do it anyway. And there is no authority or power to prevent it.

Oh, and guess what else, even atheists and progressive lie to themselves when someone they know takes their own life; and even atheists and progressives blame the person who suicides for being weak and selfish.
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#94  Postby Durro » Jun 19, 2011 9:38 am

Gallstones wrote: and even atheists and progressives blame the person who suicides for being weak and selfish.


Some people may very well hold that sort of view ; I personally don't. I view self administered euthanasia as a tremendously brave act on the part of the terminally ill/profoundly incapacitated. To leave this mortal life when all instincts usually desperately cling onto it takes a special sort of courage IMO. From what I've encountered with people who plan to or actually do it, there's also a certain degree of wanting to lessen the burden on their care givers too. So I view it as neither selfish or cowardice.

As stated earlier, I support a person's right to end their own suffering and admire people to self-sacrifice themselves to save others. My only concern is that suicide may be made as a "heat of the moment" decision by people who may not be totally recognizant of their own mental state and prognosis with effective treatment. Many presentations of depression come with an altered mental state and distorted outlook on their future - I know having been there once or twice myself. Therefore, I view most suicides in depressed people as a crying shame, given that many would benefit from treatment and the impetus for self harm could be removed.
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#95  Postby Gallstones » Jun 20, 2011 6:41 am

That doesn't describe me.

I'm "there" nearly everyday; sometimes more than once.

And still, your scenario does not describe me.
There won't be a cure--like with clinical depression--it won't go way and it won't get better. Gets worse in fact. That is my prognosis.

So whose sadness trumps whose?

I don't want approval, I don't want admiration. I want a new and better world. And there is none.
I also want people who have no fucking clue to stop thinking their version of a life worth living is enough.
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#96  Postby Durro » Jun 20, 2011 7:06 am

Gallstones, I wasn't trying to describe you and certainly wasn't trying to compare pathologies. I was responding to a point you made with my thoughts about it. I suspect that you're interpreting my comments in a way they're not intended, as I was addressing your post content, not you personally.
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#97  Postby natselrox » Jun 20, 2011 7:10 am

Gallstones wrote:I want a new and better world. And there is none.


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#98  Postby Gallstones » Jun 20, 2011 7:35 am

Durro wrote:Gallstones, I wasn't trying to describe you and certainly wasn't trying to compare pathologies. I was responding to a point you made with my thoughts about it. I suspect that you're interpreting my comments in a way they're not intended, as I was addressing your post content, not you personally.


But there are other states of being, other ways of being.
Some people just deviate and others are deviants. And there can be an impasse too great to be bridged; a distance too great for understanding to cross.

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#99  Postby z8000783 » Jun 20, 2011 7:47 am

Gallstones wrote:
Durro wrote:Gallstones, I wasn't trying to describe you and certainly wasn't trying to compare pathologies. I was responding to a point you made with my thoughts about it. I suspect that you're interpreting my comments in a way they're not intended, as I was addressing your post content, not you personally.


But there are other states of being, other ways of being.
Some people just deviate and others are deviants. And there can be an impasse too great to be bridged; a distance too great for understanding to cross.


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