inkaStepa wrote:I couldn't really think of any other word to describe what I mean. What I'm asking is, do you guys think there will ever be a time when people will stop having hurtful and overly selfish ideas? I know things aren't black and white but things like greed, torture, things that are destructive to ourseleves and the world at large. Is it a survival mechanism to be greedy? I used to be sort of violent until I realized that it was just me being afraid of one thing or another. This might be me just being naive, but is there a way to live without inflicting pain on eacother or is it a necessity?
As you said yourself, things aren't black and white. People are sometimes good, and sometimes bad. We shouldn't dwell too much on one aspect without reflecting some on the other.
I've done some bad things in my life. One time, as a teenager, I did something that to this day I still feel bad about. I was hanging out with some friends, one of whom was a blind kid. We were sitting around playing Risk or something. I had no money and we were talking about getting food from a fast food place. Well, I "selflessly" volunteered to go buy food for people; I bought myself some stuff using the blind kid's money, hoping he wouldn't realize I didn't give him enough change back. I felt incredibly guilty about it later; what kind of evil lying bastard would do that to a blind kid? I think he realized I cheated him but didn't say anything. Does he remember this to this day, and did it make him a more pessimistic person? Does he hate people now? Did I fuck this kid up for life?
Of course, I'm not the only one who has done something bad like that, I try to tell myself. Am I an inherently bad person because I did this pretty bad thing once as a kid? No, I'm not a saint, and neither is anyone else, but I don't think I'm a bad person. We are all pretty confused about life, some more than others. Especially when we're young. We have to make mistakes like that in life in order to learn to be a better person.
Anyone who reads the news can be forgiven these days for becoming pessimistic about the human race, when all we seem to read about is terrorism, violence, wars, greed, how we're polluting the environment. Yeah, the human race has massive problems and often it seems like we're incapable of doing anything about them. Yet, we can look at human history and see we've always had massive problems. There is a lot of ignorance, cruelty and brutality going on now, but in many ways it was even worse in the past. I think we are very slowly improving. Maybe we're still very young as a species, still very confused but growing wiser. The mistakes we make are necessary because we didn't evolve already all-knowing and have to learn from our mistakes.
Bribase wrote:Well, Inka, Steven Pinker seems to think that in the grand scale of things humanity has never been so peaceful and non-violent. I haven't read his book yet but his argument seems pretty compelling.
Yeah, that is kind of my point here, I guess.