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But then, I don't have children.
AlohaChris wrote:I strive to be as honest as I can be with my children, giving them age-approiate explanations for life's experiences. Lately, I'm wondering what topics, if any are 'inappropriate' for children.
My latest example was an intoxicated family member at dinner acting foolishly. My kids (8 & 7) were asking appropriate questions: "Why is he acting like that?" "What is alcohol?" "What does 'drunk' mean?"
I gave my kids an explanation about alcohol, it's effects on the brain/body, why some people get drunk, and the implications/possible consequences thereof. My wife was not happy with this, saying that I was giving them too much information and "turning the kids against" her family member. I would like to add that I was careful to be non-judgemental in speaking about this family member, saying that "Uncle X sometimes drinks too much", not "Uncle X is a lousy drunk".
What say you?
natselrox wrote:Cynicism.
Animavore wrote:I remember being lied to as a child. Fortunately I had access to dictionaries, older kids and cousins and, of course, a cool uncle (a role I've now taken myself ) and the stash of pornographic mags and erotic novels on top of my parent's wardrobe to help me work out all the things in life the bastard grown-ups tried to keep from me. I still consider most adults to be the enemy of children to this day. I will not be an enemy to children. I will never lie to them.
AlohaChris wrote:What say you?
Paul G wrote:Never lie to a child, they're not stupid.
natselrox wrote:
That's Rational Skepticism, DD, not cynicism!
Paul G wrote:Never lie to a child, they're not stupid.
AlohaChris wrote:I strive to be as honest as I can be with my children, giving them age-approiate explanations for life's experiences. Lately, I'm wondering what topics, if any are 'inappropriate' for children.
My latest example was an intoxicated family member at dinner acting foolishly. My kids (8 & 7) were asking appropriate questions: "Why is he acting like that?" "What is alcohol?" "What does 'drunk' mean?"
I gave my kids an explanation about alcohol, it's effects on the brain/body, why some people get drunk, and the implications/possible consequences thereof. My wife was not happy with this, saying that I was giving them too much information and "turning the kids against" her family member. I would like to add that I was careful to be non-judgemental in speaking about this family member, saying that "Uncle X sometimes drinks too much", not "Uncle X is a lousy drunk".
What say you?
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