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Paul1 wrote:Many a time I've had an old person heavily insist that based on their experience, I, as a young person, should follow their advice. What do you feel about the experience and wisdom of others?
I have a strong dislike of people who use their experience as a credential for the value of their advice and that people often equate their experience to fact. It's necessary to be cautious of experience as it can teach us incorrect things. An example: When I complained, I got fired, therefore it's better not to complain!. Looking at the example, one must ask, in what setting was I/they fired? In what ways has employment changed? How did I/they approach my/their boss? Asking these questions brings into doubt one's own experience, which I think can be uncomfortable for people who value experience. People can take quite a lot of offence to having their experience questioned with reason.
However, they forget that:
1. People approach things in different ways from different perspectives other than their own
2. Different results may come out from the same social situation when repeated by the same person
3. Experience can scare people into giving up, and espousing the hopelessness of the situation as if it were fact
This is I believe reason is better, because you balance experience with sense.
Mac_Guffin wrote:I don't think age always equals wisdom. Older people may have had more time to learn and experience certain things, but that doesn't mean that they have all used that time wisely.
"The Greatest Generation" in the USA are (in a general sense) an example of wasted time. They contributed a bit to World War 2 only to reflect the feel of the empires they were fighting against.
logical bob wrote:Don't you think it's annoying when some kid who knows nothing makes an obvious mistake that they wouldn't let you point out to them because they think they're too clever?
laklak wrote:I do fine now, because experience tells me to just shut up and pour some more wine if I want to get laid.
Paul1 wrote:Many a time I've had an old person heavily insist that based on their experience, I, as a young person, should follow their advice. What do you feel about the experience and wisdom of others?
I have a strong dislike of people who use their experience as a credential for the value of their advice and that people often equate their experience to fact. It's necessary to be cautious of experience as it can teach us incorrect things. An example: When I complained, I got fired, therefore it's better not to complain!. Looking at the example, one must ask, in what setting was I/they fired? In what ways has employment changed? How did I/they approach my/their boss? Asking these questions brings into doubt one's own experience, which I think can be uncomfortable for people who value experience. People can take quite a lot of offence to having their experience questioned with reason.
However, they forget that:
1. People approach things in different ways from different perspectives other than their own
2. Different results may come out from the same social situation when repeated by the same person
3. Experience can scare people into giving up, and espousing the hopelessness of the situation as if it were fact
This is I believe reason is better, because you balance experience with sense.
When I was a boy of 14, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be 21, I was astonished at how much the old man had learned in seven years. Mark Twain
I think I'm going to sig this one.A man who carries a cat by the tail learns something he can learn in no other way. - Mark Twain
Do you know the difference between education and experience? Education is when you read the fine print; experience is what you get when you don't - Pete Seeger
The only source of knowledge is experience - Albert Einstein
Experience is the one thing you can get for free - Oscar WIlde
logical bob wrote:Don't you think it's annoying when some kid who knows nothing makes an obvious mistake that they wouldn't let you point out to them because they think they're too clever?
laklak wrote:logical bob wrote:Don't you think it's annoying when some kid who knows nothing makes an obvious mistake that they wouldn't let you point out to them because they think they're too clever?
Hell no, it's far too amusing to watch them fall on their asses and whine about how unfair the world is. One of the greatest pleasures of advancing age is knowing the young know-it-alls will eventually be where I am and realize that they actually don't know a fucking thing.
I spent many years trying to understand women from a logical perspective. It's a fruitless, doomed enterprise. I do fine now, because experience tells me to just shut up and pour some more wine if I want to get laid.
Paul1 wrote:Many a time I've had an old person heavily insist that based on their experience, I, as a young person, should follow their advice. What do you feel about the experience and wisdom of others?
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