Mr.Samsa wrote:xtraordinaryevidence wrote:Mr.Samsa wrote:Women are never privileged. Such a statement is simply incoherent and nonsensical. It's like talking about dimensionless squares or pointy circles.
Are you serious?
Custody of children after separation.
Just one example, but that's all that is needed to refute your ridiculous assertion.
Not an example of women's privilege. That's benevolent sexism against women.
This is utterly twisted logic. And it's pervasive; I hear it a lot. And it creates a truly insidious problem: it's used to minimize, marginalize, and shift attention and away from the devastating effects on the man. This woman
wants the kids. She gets the kids. She's happy. The man is completely devastated. Yet that doesn't matter; the "real" problem is that the woman got the kids because society views women as nurturers. I'm not saying this is not a real problem. But people use your logic to justify disregarding the horrible effects on men, and to say, in effect, that it's not really a problem worthy of attention.
It's like saying black people are privileged in that they get picked first in basketball games,
Yes, in that instance, they are privileged. In that instance, they benefit from societal views, and white people suffer from them. This is what I mean when I said your view is too simplistic. It's a small instance, but it illustrates the point.
or disabled people are privileged because they get car parks closer to the store.
Not a good analogy, because disabled people have a manifest physical need for the closer spaces. The woman who wants the kids doesn't.
The concept of privilege specifically and necessarily can only be applied to groups which hold the powerful positions in society.
And, again, your view of who holds power is far too simplistic. It allows for no nuance.
Incidentally, if it is that simplistic, that monolithic, how do we know if the balance tips? How are you measuring this supposed monolithic "power"? See how ridiculous it is? It seems to me that a more nuanced view is called for. In many situations - perhaps the vast majority of them - men hold more power than women in our society. I'm not denying that. But in some situations, women hold more power than men.
This doesn't mean that minorities don't have some "advantages", but the point is that these advantages always come with a hefty price and are essentially like backhanded compliments.
Yes, and that only happens to women, right? The (almost all male) coal miners and construction workers who do these terribly dangerous jobs do so because of the "advantage" conferred on men by the image of the big, strong man. And this "advantage"
doesn't doesn't come with a hefty price?