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willhud9 wrote:"Why should my taxes go towards" is being used as an argument? Did the libertarians come through here? Child welfare isn't a good thing to use taxes on? We already spend a ton of tax dollars on their education and pediatric healthcare. But do go on about how much of a burden it would be to the tax payer.
tuco wrote:Could the state be paying AND at the same time enforcing such disincentive?
purplerat wrote:willhud9 wrote:"Why should my taxes go towards" is being used as an argument? Did the libertarians come through here? Child welfare isn't a good thing to use taxes on? We already spend a ton of tax dollars on their education and pediatric healthcare. But do go on about how much of a burden it would be to the tax payer.
If it were as simple as "Why should my taxes go towards" then I might be open to just saying the state has to pay for all children. But it's not. I actually want an active disincentive to people having kids and just leaving to the state to take care of. I don't want people out there popping out dozens of kids and just leaving them to the state to take care of.
And how would you even enforce it to prevent people from abusing it? Why can't I just tell the state I don't want to pay for my kids and let the tax payers state paying for their food and clothing so that I can go on nice vacations with my wife.
So to me it's not about the burden to the taxpayer but rather the burden to the irresponsible parent that I want them to have. Because even if it isn't a big deal to the state and you can find ways to prevent abuse, preventing one kid from being born to deadbeat parents is worth making all the would be deadbeats in the world pony up for their own.
tuco wrote:Its possibly a can of worms. Once there is mechanism in place allowing to forfeit parental responsibilities, some people would abuse it, which is my only objection against such mechanism. But yeah, to decide whether or not such mechanism is feasible, some numbers would be needed.
proudfootz wrote:One possible consequence for a man woman engaging in sex with a woman man isfatheringconceiving a child, which comes with a certain amount of responsibility.
The sooner kids appreciate that fact, the better.
proudfootz wrote:
I am.
The idea of 'taking the risk together' here I'm talking about if the pregnancy is carried to term.
I don't mean it to contradict the idea that the one whose life is at risk is the one who should have the final say.
willhud9 wrote:...
I'm now responsible for it even though I was clear I had no intention of being a father?
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purplerat wrote:I actually want an active disincentive to people having kids and just leaving to the state to take care of.
Nicko wrote:purplerat wrote:I actually want an active disincentive to people having kids and just leaving to the state to take care of.
No.
As near as I can tell, you want an actual disincentive for men impregnating women and just leaving the state to take care of the child.
Where's the woman in this?
She has no agency? She makes no decisions?
In fact, she has all the agency and makes all the decisions (as it should be, it's her body). The simple consequence of having 100% of the power is, however, having 100% of the responsibility.
Why are you so reluctant to hold the woman accountable for her decisions?
Nicko wrote:proudfootz wrote:
I am.
The idea of 'taking the risk together' here I'm talking about if the pregnancy is carried to term.
I don't mean it to contradict the idea that the one whose life is at risk is the one who should have the final say.
So, the woman who is has (or should have) 100% of the power in this situation?
willhud9 wrote:purplerat wrote:willhud9 wrote:"Why should my taxes go towards" is being used as an argument? Did the libertarians come through here? Child welfare isn't a good thing to use taxes on? We already spend a ton of tax dollars on their education and pediatric healthcare. But do go on about how much of a burden it would be to the tax payer.
If it were as simple as "Why should my taxes go towards" then I might be open to just saying the state has to pay for all children. But it's not. I actually want an active disincentive to people having kids and just leaving to the state to take care of. I don't want people out there popping out dozens of kids and just leaving them to the state to take care of.
And how would you even enforce it to prevent people from abusing it? Why can't I just tell the state I don't want to pay for my kids and let the tax payers state paying for their food and clothing so that I can go on nice vacations with my wife.
So to me it's not about the burden to the taxpayer but rather the burden to the irresponsible parent that I want them to have. Because even if it isn't a big deal to the state and you can find ways to prevent abuse, preventing one kid from being born to deadbeat parents is worth making all the would be deadbeats in the world pony up for their own.
But your talk of irresponsible parent doesn't hold up. Literally if I impregnate a woman you and I would say that the fetus is not a child. I am not the parent of said fetus, but because of birth and the arbitrary notion of personhood all of a sudden I'm now responsible for it even though I was clear I had no intention of being a father?
willhud9 wrote:
Also care to address my other post?
proudfootz wrote:
Yes.
I didn't meant to imply that the mother and father of a child do not both share responsibility for their mutual child.
Thanks for helping me clear that up!
Nicko wrote:proudfootz wrote:
I am.
The idea of 'taking the risk together' here I'm talking about if the pregnancy is carried to term.
I don't mean it to contradict the idea that the one whose life is at risk is the one who should have the final say.
So, the woman who is has (or should have) 100% of the power in this situation?
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