PensivePenny wrote:Thomas Eshuis wrote:PensivePenny wrote:In the US, I'm not so sure about elsewhere, we have this epidemic of universities who are now required, mostly by students, to provide "safe spaces" from "microagression" and other "perceived threats." It is a sign that people have become overly sensitive to criticism or disagreement, "micro-agression". Now THAT is something that SHOULD make us ALL sad. I hope it never rises to that here.
If anything it's been going the other way with trolls getting more and more leeway in flaming or outright attacking their interlocutors.
Be that as it may...I haven't attacked you.
You have. On multiple occasions you've insinuated or outright made accusations about my mental state and character.
That's what's called a personal attack.
PensivePenny wrote:Telling you I think you were rude to me isn't a personal attack. Telling you I don't wish to engage you isn't a personal attack. Calling you a man or dutch or 27 years old, isn't an "attack."
The personal attacks I am referring to are your insinuations and accusations about my mental state and character.
I've clearly explained this several times already.
So you're either still not reading what I actuallly post, or dishonestly acting obtuse to erect yet more straw-men.
PensivePenny wrote: If any of those things offend you, you need to deal with that yourself.
I've made it perfectly clear which comments of yours are personal attacks. And they're not the straw-men you've just erected.
PensivePenny wrote: I'm going solely on the information at my disposal... your avatar info. And that could all be wrong for all I know. But, it makes no real difference to me one way or the other.
You either have a problem rememebering what you post, or your acting incredibly dishonest. The following things are personal attacks that have no basis in my avatar info. Nor do you have any other sound basis to make these remarks. Not to mention that they're FUA violations either way.
Implying that I'm overly sensitive and need special considerations:
PensivePenny wrote:Whatever soothes your sensibilities Thomas
Baseless accusation about my character:
PensivePenny wrote:Now who's making use of straw men? I think you just like to fight.
Another baseless accusation about my character and motivations:
PensivePenny wrote:Thomas Eshuis wrote:You still haven't answeed the question: why is it not a lot? In other words why would you expect more?
IMO, I did. If you spent more time looking for common ground than something to be contrarian about, you might have caught it. I leave it to you to (re)interpret my meaning.
More baseless accusations about my character:
PensivePenny wrote:For whatever reason, through your desire to be intentionally obtuse or adversarial or maybe just you and I don't gel... whatever the reason, I see trying to engage you as pointless.
Insinuating I am mentally handicapped and asserting I need to see a therapist:
[quote=PensivePenny"]
Thomas Eshuis wrote:I'm not worried, only
disappointed that you refuse to engage with what I actually post and have now chosen to dismiss me out of hand, based on several characteristics you've projected onto me that have no basis in reality.
If I were "disappointed" because some anonymous person on a forum wouldn't talk to me, I would evaluate that with my therapist, not share it in a public forum. That's just me. If "baiting" me is your goal, you'll have to do better.
False accusations of bullying and verbal abuse:
PensivePenny wrote:I don't sulk when verbally abused or bullied. I always hold my ground. So, if you try any of those things, don't expect me to submit like a sad puppy with my tail between my legs. I got over my daddy issues a long time ago.
Baselessly accusing Fallible of trying to manipulate you:
PensivePenny wrote:To me, and this is just my opinion, mind you... What I hear is manipulation for me to like who she likes, dislike who she doesn't and fall into line. Well, it isn't my experience.
And these are just the most obvious examples in this thread.
PensivePenny wrote:Name calling is an attack, which I've not done....
Name-calling is
one form of personal attack. Others include (baselessly) questioning your interlocturs sanity, motivations and character.
All of which you have done and repeatedly so, in this thread)
PensivePenny wrote: "brow beating" might be considered an attack... harassment, at the very least.
The latter having been done to ME.[/quote]
Pure fantasy.
The only reason I kept responding to your post is because you kept misrepresenting me and projecting all manner of things onto me.
If you'd just kept your word and ignored me, I wouldn't have made those posts.
PensivePenny wrote: You don't see me curling up in a ball and sucking my thumb over it.
There you go again. This is inflammatory posting Penny. Even if it were an accurate description of the situation, which it isn't by lightyears, it would still be inflammatory and a violation of the FUA.
PensivePenny wrote: I'll take the browbeating for a while...
I'm not interested in what fantasies you decide to engage in.
PensivePenny wrote: when I've had enough and the negatives of participating here exceed the positives, I'll simply find something more interesting to do.
Again, you're not the innocent party here by a long shot.
PensivePenny wrote: Am I allowed to say there might be something more interesting? Or, is that considered another attack? The bar seems pretty low.
When you make stuff up, like you do, there is no bar.
You keep pretending I haven't long since pointed out how we could get back to a more interesting and reasonable discussion on the topic of this thread. It won't fly.
"Respect for personal beliefs = "I am going to tell you all what I think of YOU, but don't dare retort and tell what you think of ME because...it's my personal belief". Hmm. A bully's charter and no mistake."