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Re: Online Islamic sex-shop opens for business

#21  Postby kiore » May 04, 2010 2:24 pm

The burkha etc is for outside the home, it is not forbidden to see the wife's face or in fact all of her inside the home (for the husband). The covering is supposed to stop inciting lust in other men. In Syria there is a market selling 'sexy' underwear that is popular for wedding presents etc I think some of the posters above would be surprised to see what sort of kit is sometimes covered by those layers. :shock:
Oh the other hand I am aware of some christian groups that forbid or at least expressly discourage nudity even within the 'confines of the marital bed'.
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#22  Postby cherries » May 04, 2010 2:28 pm

yeah but then i've also heard that some muslim scholars don't advice seeing each other naked in bed,so it's not that clear cut.
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#23  Postby kiore » May 04, 2010 2:31 pm

cherries wrote:yeah but then i've also heard that some muslim scholars don't advice seeing each other naked in bed,so it's not that clear cut.


Yes of course Fundies are mainly unFundy . Some insist it is a sin for men's trousers to cover their ankles too :naughty:
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#24  Postby cherries » May 04, 2010 2:33 pm

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#25  Postby Oeditor » May 04, 2010 4:24 pm

cherries wrote:yeah but then i've also heard that some muslim scholars don't advice seeing each other naked in bed,so it's not that clear cut.
I'm sure that's correct. There's also the tale, reported here I think, of the woman who wanted a divorce because her husband (of many years) lifted her veil and looked at her face.
Then again, wasn't there another where it was the husband who wanted a divorce for the same reason? :lol:
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#26  Postby Be Afraid » May 05, 2010 5:09 am

What's this about covering men's ankles?

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#27  Postby cherries » May 05, 2010 7:12 am

Oeditor wrote:
cherries wrote:yeah but then i've also heard that some muslim scholars don't advice seeing each other naked in bed,so it's not that clear cut.
I'm sure that's correct. There's also the tale, reported here I think, of the woman who wanted a divorce because her husband (of many years) lifted her veil and looked at her face.
Then again, wasn't there another where it was the husband who wanted a divorce for the same reason? :lol:


both stories would fall under the category of intense stupidity :lol:
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#28  Postby kiore » May 06, 2010 11:17 am

Be Afraid wrote:What's this about covering men's ankles?

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Somali islamists have declared this to be unislamic, men must have their ankles visible. Yes really apparantly that's how allah likes it.
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#29  Postby NineBerry » May 06, 2010 6:13 pm

kiore wrote:
[url=http://www.rational-skepticism.org/viewtopic.php?p=176907#p176907]Be Afraid[/url] wrote:What's this about covering men's ankles?

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Somali islamists have declared this to be unislamic, men must have their ankles visible. Yes really apparantly that's how allah likes it.


I think the original idea of Mo was that it is not allowed to wear clothes that hang beneath the ankles and could get dirty

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#30  Postby Oeditor » May 06, 2010 11:30 pm

NineBerry wrote:
kiore wrote:
[url=http://www.rational-skepticism.org/viewtopic.php?p=176907#p176907]Be Afraid[/url] wrote:

No washing machines in 7th century Arabia.
But if it's all sand, there's no mud either. Automatic dry cleaning, courtesy of Allah.
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#31  Postby cherries » May 07, 2010 5:16 am

Oeditor wrote:
NineBerry wrote:
kiore wrote:
[url=http://www.rational-skepticism.org/viewtopic.php?p=176907#p176907]Be Afraid[/url] wrote:

No washing machines in 7th century Arabia.
But if it's all sand, there's no mud either. Automatic dry cleaning, courtesy of Allah.


following logic then,the women would have to lift their robe too ;)
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Re: Online Islamic sex-shop opens for business

#32  Postby NineBerry » May 07, 2010 10:58 am

Obviously, when having your garments drag behind you, many people do that "out of pride" :scratch:

Does the prohibition on isbaal include women too?

Praise be to Allaah.

The warning with regard to isbaal (wearing clothes that come below the ankle) in the case of men does not apply to women, because women and commanded to cover their feet, and it is permitted to them to lengthen their garments by a cubit.

It was narrated that Ibn ‘Umar said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever allows his garment to drag out of pride, Allaah will not look at him on the Day of Resurrection.” Umm Salamah said: “What should women do with their hems?” He said: “Lower it a handspan.” She said: “Then their feet will show.” He said: “Let them lower it a cubit, but no more than that.”

Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 1731; al-Nasaa’i, 5336; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi.

“And let them not stamp their feet so as to reveal what they hide of their adornment”

[al-Noor 24:31]

Ibn Hazm said:

This text applies to the feet and calves, which are hidden; it is not permissible to show them.

Al-Muhalla, 3/216

Al-Qaadi ‘Iyaad said:

The scholars are unanimously agreed that this is forbidden to men, not to women.

Tarh al-Tathreeb, 8/173

Al-Nawawi said:

The scholars are unanimously agreed that it is permissible for women to let their garments hang below their ankles (isbaal). Clear permission has been narrated from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) for them to lower their hems by a cubit.

Sharh Muslim, 14/62.

Shaykh ‘Abd al-‘Azeez ibn Baaz said:

The point is that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) explained all that is good and called us to all that is good, and he warned us against all that is evil. He (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whatever of the lower garment hangs down below the ankles is in the Fire.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari in his Saheeh. The izar (lower garment), trousers, thobe (dishdasha) and abaya (cloak) should not come down below the ankles; whatever comes below the ankles is subject to the warning mentioned in the hadeeth, with regard to men. With regard to women, they have to make their clothes long enough to cover their feet, because the feet are ‘awrah. It is not permissible for a man to imitate women by dragging his garment or in any other way.

Majmoo’ Fataawa al-Shaykh Ibn Baaz, 5/28.

And he said:

There are many similar ahaadeeth, which indicate that isbaal is forbidden in general terms, even if the one who does it claims that he is not doing it for the sake of pride and showing off, because that is a means that leads to pride, and because it is a kind of extravagance and exposing clothing to dirt and impurities. But if a person does that with the intention of pride then the matter is more serious and the sin is greater, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever allows his garment to drag out of pride, Allaah will not look at him on the Day of Resurrection.” The defining point here is the ankles. The Muslim male is not allowed to let his garments come down below the ankles, because of the ahaadeeth mentioned.

But in the case of females, they may make their clothes longer so as to cover the feet.


http://www.islam-qa.com/en/ref/48953/Isbaal


The punishment for showing off may come to pass in this world, not in the Hereafter. Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "Whilst a man was walking arrogantly admiring himself and his clothes, Allaah caused the earth to swallow him and he is suffering in it until the Day of Resurrection.


http://www.islam-qa.com/en/ref/762/Isbaal
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If a man lets his garment hang down below the ankle with the intention of being conceited and showing off, this is haraam and there is no difference of scholarly opinion concerning that, rather it is a major sin.

In the answer to question no. 762 we have quoted some of the ahaadeeth which speak of the prohibition on that.

With regard to the one who lets his garment hang below his ankle with no intention of being conceited and showing off, the scholars differed in this case and there are three points of view: that it is haraam, that it is makrooh and that it is permissible and not makrooh.

The majority of scholars from the four madhhabs are of the view that it is not haraam. There follow some of the comments of the scholars from different madhhabs concerning that:

Ibn Muflih said in al-Adaab al-Shar’iyyah (3/521):

Abu Haneefah (may Allaah be pleased with him) wore an expansive rida’ and let it drag on the ground. It was said to him: Are we not forbidden to do this? He said: That is for those who show off and we are not among them. End quote.

See: al-Fataawa al-Hindiyyah (5/333).

With regard to the Maalikis, some of them were of the view that it is haraam, such as Ibn al-‘Arabi and al-Quraafi.

Ibn al-‘Arabi said in ‘Aaridat al-Ahwadhi (7/238):

It is not permissible for a man to let his garment go beyond his ankle and say that he is not being arrogant by doing so, because the text mentions the prohibition and refers to the reason, and it is not permissible for anyone to say I am not one of those referred to in the text, because the reason does not apply to me, because that attitude goes against sharee’ah and is an unacceptable claim. It is a kind of arrogance to make one’s garment and izaar longer, so he is definitely lying. End quote.

Other Maalikis are of the view that it is makrooh and not haraam.

Al-Haafiz Ibn ‘Abd al-Barr said in al-Tamheed (3/244):

This hadeeth indicates that the one who lets his garment drag for a reason other than pride and arrogance is not subject to the warning mentioned, but letting the izaar, chemise and any other garment drag is blameworthy in all cases. End quote.

It says in Haashiyat al-‘Adawi (2/453):

There is a difference of opinion concerning that which comes lower than the ankles if it is not done out of arrogance. Al-Hattaab – a Maaliki scholar – concluded that it is not haraam, rather it is makrooh. Al-Tadhkirah – a book by Imam al-Quraafi – concluded that is that it is haraam.

It seems that the most likely to be correct is the view that it is emphatically makrooh. End quote.

With regard to the Shaafa’is, they stated that it is not haraam unless it is done with the intention of showing off.

Imam al-Shaafa’i (may Allaah have mercy on him) said, as was quoted from him by al-Nawawi in al-Majmoo’ (3/177): It is not permissible to let the garment hang low when praying or otherwise in order to show off. As for letting the garment hang low for reasons other than showing off when praying, it is not as serious, because of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said to Abu Bakr (may Allaah be pleased with him) when he told him that his izaar slipped down on one side: “You are not one of them (i.e., those who let the garment hang down out of pride).” End quote.

And al-Nawawi said in Sharh Muslim (14/62):

It is not permissible to let the garment hang down below the ankles if it is done in order to show off. If it is done for any other reason then it is makrooh. The apparent meaning of the ahaadeeth which limit it to letting the garment drag in order to show off indicates that it is haraam specifically when done to show off. This was stated by al-Shaafa’i who differentiated between different cases. End quote.

Some of the Shaafa’is – such as al-Dhahabi and al-Haafiz Ibn Hajar – were of the view that it is haraam.

Al-Dhahabi said in Siyar A’laam al-Nubala’ (3/234), in response to the one who lets his garment hang below the ankle and says ‘I am not doing that to show off’:

You see him behaving in an arrogant manner and thinking of himself as not one of them (those who are arrogant), but this is a foolish notion. And you see him looking at a text that is general in meaning, and he limits its meaning on the basis of another, separate hadeeth, to conclude that it is only haraam when it is done in order to show off!

So he allows a concession based on the words of al-Siddeeq (Abu Bakr), who said: O Messenger of Allaah, my izaar slips down, and he said: “O Abu Bakr, you are not one of those who do that to show off.”

We say: Abu Bakr (may Allaah be pleased with him) did not tie his izaar in such a way that it hung below the ankles in the first place, rather he tied it so that it came above the ankle, but it slipped down after that.

And the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The izaar of the believer should come to mid-calf, but it does not matter if it comes between (that point) and the ankle.” The same prohibition applies to the one who lets his trousers cover his ankles, or makes his sleeves too long. All of that is showing off which is deeply hidden in the psyche. End quote.

With regard to the Hanbalis, they stated that it is not haraam.

It says in al-Iqnaa’ (1/139):

It is makrooh for a man’s garment to come below his ankle unnecessarily. End quote.

Ibn Qudaamah said in al-Mughni (2/298): It is makrooh to let the chemise, izaar and trousers come below the ankle, and if he does that in order to show off then it is haraam. End quote.

Ibn Muflih said in al-Adaab al-Shar’iyyah (3/521):

Shaykh Taqiy al-Deen (Ibn Taymiyah – may Allaah have mercy on him) favoured the view that it is not haraam, but he did not mention whether it is makrooh or not. End quote.

See: Sharh al-‘Umdah by Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (p. 361-362).

Al-San’aani (may Allaah have mercy on him) was of the view that it is haraam, and he wrote a book concerning that entitled Istifa’ al-Aqwaal fi Tahreem al-Isbaal ‘ala al-Rijaal.

The view that it is haraam is the view favoured by most of our contemporary scholars, such as Shaykh Ibn Baaz, Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen, Shaykh Ibn Jibreen, Shaykh Saalih al-Fawzaan, the scholars of the Standing Committee for Issuing Fatwas and others.


http://www.islam-qa.com/en/ref/102260/Isbaal

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Re: Online Islamic sex-shop opens for business

#33  Postby Oeditor » May 07, 2010 12:57 pm

Talk about obsessive nit-picking. Hmm, I wonder if they have rules about nit-picking as well?
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Re: Online Islamic sex-shop opens for business

#34  Postby cherries » May 07, 2010 3:30 pm

He (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whatever of the lower garment hangs down below the ankles is in the Fire.”

it sure doesn't take much to go to hell :whine:

The punishment for showing off may come to pass in this world, not in the Hereafter. Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "Whilst a man was walking arrogantly admiring himself and his clothes, Allaah caused the earth to swallow him and he is suffering in it until the Day of Resurrection.


:shock: now i'm starting to understand the boobquake-theory.. :shhh: . :lol:

very wide sleeves too are prohibited for the same reasons,i guess if we would google some fashion from that time period we'd be finding long and flowing garments to be the in thing.muhammad would want to show himself to be above this kind of frivolous things.
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