Christian Domestic Discipline
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Swan wrote:
Comments please! ANY man who lays a violent NON-CONSENTING hand on a woman... needs to LOSE it!! And I've got a sword!
Swan
DarthHelmet86 wrote:
The problem I have seen from some of these sites is that it extends far beyond sex play and includes stuff about keeping the woman in her place in front of the kids so that they understand they are above the wife but below the dad. We should be careful about just shrugging our shoulders and saying "Meh it is just Christians trying to get some kinky sex" when it seems at times to be the more about abusive power control by religious men over their consenting wives, or unconsenting wives who are really unable to say no.
DarthHelmet86 wrote:I was pretty sure you were, I was more quoting you to show my agreement then anything else.
Nicko wrote:This appears to be the extreme end of the Surrendered Wife Movement. There's blogs if you want to know ...
My first instinct was to say that this has nothing to do with BDSM play - where, in reality, the sub sets the parameters and can end the scene at any time - but there are parallels. The sense of calm and relaxation reported by these women is quite typical of the feelings reported by subs; the women in these relationships want that feeling and they want it to never stop. Without the boundaries established by the rules of BDSM - which of course demand a level of emotional/sexual maturity actively discouraged by the subcultures in which this occurs - my view is that it is highly unhealthy, and not just for the women in these relationships. Being totally responsible for everything - ie. the only adult - in a relationship is fine as a bit of fun: as a consensual game. 24/7? Not so much. The men in these relationships are taking on 100% of the responsibility with 0% of the support. It's a fucking recipe for crash-and-burn.
BTW, does anyone remember my old avatar?
DarthHelmet86 wrote:The message in the picture also misses the point of all the people who get sick or hurt who do nothing wrong, sometimes Jesus just likes to hand out a good spanking to keep his pimp hand strong.
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