Fallible wrote:Be Afraid wrote:That they complain about harassment and misogyny tends to chap my ass just a little bit.
I was bullied unmercifully from the time I was in 1st grade, all the way to 12th grade (although 2 incidents did tend to decrease it).
I was called "fag," "homo," 'queer," 'fudge-packer,' and so on (and I'm not even "gay" - although I have had a few boyfriends).
I've been shot, stabbed, and beaten by skinheads and rednecks while trying to defend even weaker people from these assailants.
And, to top it off, I was gang-raped in 1991. The rapists tried to kill me, and then dumped what they thought was my (naked) dead body into a ditch.
I tend to not bring this crap up that often (or, at all - if I had my preference)
So... That they would bitch about the abuse they have suffered while attacking and abusing me for things that they have manufactured out of whole cloth, while supposedly pretending that their forum is for a person exactly like myself....
IT PISSES ME THE FUCK OFF!!!.
And they have the gall to try to railroad people with Post-Modernist and Identity Politics (both things that deny objective knowledge - a thing vital to skepticism).
Where the FUCK do they get off?
This has been on a low boil for the last couple of weeks, and I have been trying to be "reasonable," trying to see "both sides."
And the thing with Rebecca Watson, and richard Dawkins...
That shit is irrelevant to how they treat people at that forum.
The "Dear Muslima" episode is just used as a pretext by that forum to abuse people.
They seem to think that two wrongs make a "right."
As if, because someone has wronged someone somewhere, that this "wrong" then gives them the right to perpetuate another wrong against others.
They have a fucking LOT to apologize for.
Matthew Bailey
Excellent post Matthew, and I'm sorry for what happened to you.
+1