Doubtdispelled wrote:MattHunX wrote:Doubtdispelled wrote:
You are kidding, right?
To all the men who are saying 'it's a storm in a teacup' or 'she should get over herself' or 'she has nothing to complain about', how many of you are likely to be the ones who post on threads about rape saying things like that comment above? We've been there, got the t-shirt, the one that reads 'I'm dressed like a tart so it's ok to rape me'.
No, I'm not kidding. She obviously wasn't the kind of woman to just accept such an admittedly bold "invitation", anyway. Other women, with less inhibitions, and less shy, might easily have taken the guy's "offer", simply for the fun of it. What are the chances that he was a murdering psychopath as opposed to simply being sexually aroused and/or intoxicated to the point where he would make such a bold "proposition".
This woman obviously wasn't likely to accept the invitation from anyone, anyway. This situation, that this one guy just happened to find/approach her, a more shy, more reserved woman, alone in the elevator is so mundane, they might as well have been in a 7/11, a club, or a clothing store, with the guy hitting on her, minus the booze, or if we want that, then in a random bar.
If she wants to complain about something so trivial (in this society), then other women, who were in similar situations in bars, shops, restaurants, clubs...etc. might as well complain, too.
And that would be simply ridiculous.
You just don't 'get it', do you, Matt? Trivial? You are doing exactly the same thing Dawkins did.
And what in hell's name does sexual arousal have to do with it?
Edited my post. Added:
She didn't want to consciously put herself in a situation like that, being approached by a stranger and with such a proposition. Still, there should be no cause for concern on her part, especially, since she could escape the situation with just words. If the guy had been forceful in any way, she'd have a valid complaint.