Sophie T wrote:Surely the damage done to very young children by a parent who dies of suicide is even more significant than the damage done to adult children
That's what I was saying. Maybe I didn't express it very clearly. When Gallstones asked his question, I initially thought, in principle, that every person should feel free to opt off this mortal coil, and (perhaps) even be facilitated to find the most humane method, or at least not prevented or discouraged after all other reasonable options have been tried, regardless (in the final analysis) of how much it hurt others, but then it occured to me that one exception might be those who have chosen to bring a dependent child into the world. Even then, I wouldn't always say that this should be frowned upon in all circumstances, but as a general rule, it seems that such parents do have greater responsibilities to consider.
This is not at all to say I wouldn't have sympathy for the suffering of all those left behind, whatever age they are, but that ultimately I would not take away the individual right to choose to die in order to prevent other adults suffering.
In a way, something similar might be said about other types of responsibility for dependents, such as elderly and infirm parents or spouses ('for better or for worse, in sickness and in health, etc....) but a dependent child seems to me to be a special condideration, since they have never made a conscious decision to be in the relationship. In this sense, probably a child has more reason that most to be angry, the way I see it. And of course it's just my personal opinion.
Sophie T wrote:Suicide ends the life of the person who chooses to stop living, but, in many cases, it completely and permanently shatters the lives of the loved ones who are left behind.
I would imagine it does. And not just the loved ones but the loving ones too. A parent's worst nightmare is to have a teenager or young adult who kills themselves.