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tuco wrote:Hypothetical situation with hypothetical answers. In other words, what women will say here and what they would actually do given the opportunity are two different things.
BTW why ask only women? Because for men it does not make sense to share same wife?
Also curious to see what men would do in similar scenarios. Share Angelina with Brad, or have a wife all to oneself?
Rachel Bronwyn wrote:You make it sound as though women are never bread winners in relationships.
TMB wrote:
Imagine the scenario as being something extreme, like the 2nd wife of Brad Pitt, and although junior to Angelina, still entitled to his status, body and resources. Or being the only wife of a dirt poor man, who is barely able to sustain his family, due to lack of ability, status, resources etc.
Sorry if this doesn't fit in with biology, but I come "junior" to no one, not even Brad himself. I was the only breadwinner in my household for a very long time and I coped perfectly well without a man of any status.
I don't understand a lot that goes on in this sociology section but you do realise it's 2010?
Edit to change philosophy to sociology. Not quite so intimidating in the sociology section
anthroban wrote:The other guys could satisfy her emotional needs, and when she wants fantastic sex she could be with me.
anthroban wrote:I'd go for polygamy as a male. I could go for a multiple male single female situation as well - I hate relationships with all that emotional stuff. I'd see it as an opportunity to get what I want. The other guys could satisfy her emotional needs, and when she wants fantastic sex she could be with me. This works equally well for a multiple male, multiple women situation.
LIFE wrote:anthroban wrote:The other guys could satisfy her emotional needs, and when she wants fantastic sex she could be with me.
Fantastic sex without emotion? Yeah, right...
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TMB wrote:
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Polygamy history shows that its very rare to find multiple husbands serving one wife, while the inverse has occured many times, even today it occurs and is well accepted in the group by both the men and women. Male jealousy appears to be a major stumbling block for multiple males, one female.
The claim about male jealousy is a pretty strong claim. While history indeed shows what you describe, personally, I would account multiple wives serving one husband mainly to other factors than jealousy. Men traditionally act as providers and women as caretakers.
In hunter-gatherer societies it made sense for physically stronger men to hunt, and for women to care. Till today we see and understand "profit" in form of hunting rather than taking care, which upon closer examination is a bit inaccurate notion, despite we could claim that without hunting there could be no caring. Who is more "valuable" Wall Street banker or a nurse?
If this assumption, about providers and caretakers, is true, and if we agree that arrangements between men and women were historically, aside from religious practices, defined mainly by "economic" efficiency, we can see that jealousy is not paramount to polygamy, despite the known biological imperatives introduced by evolutionary biology/psychology.
Male jealousy appears to be a major stumbling block for multiple males, one female.
do not think it is and none can prove, by what you call logic, either way.
Other than that, tell me something I do not know. I know popular science works and hypothesis of R. Wright, M. Ridley, R. Trivers, R. Dawkins, or E.O. Wilson.
Today, in the so called developed world we can observe what is called demographic transition which is said to have "economic" causes and which is yet to be explained from the point of view of evolutionary biology in satisfactory manner, however, it does show that reproductive decision making is driven by a human psychology - is not written in stone.
There are people who cannot have or do not even want to have offspring, and for such people the "logic of jealousy" as you put it does not have to be a major stumbling block.
Not so long ago someone posted this:
E.O. Wilson Proposes New Theory of Social Evolution - http://www.wired.com/wiredscience/2010/ ... nged/all/1
and from where I sit the jury is still out.
anthroban wrote:I'd go for polygamy as a male. I could go for a multiple male single female situation as well - I hate relationships with all that emotional stuff. I'd see it as an opportunity to get what I want. The other guys could satisfy her emotional needs, and when she wants fantastic sex she could be with me. This works equally well for a multiple male, multiple women situation.
TMB wrote:I don't understand a lot that goes on in this sociology section but you do realise it's 2010?
Are you suggesting that in 2010, our biology no longer dictates our behaviour, or that human society has evolved to the point that no woman would choose a man based upon their status and capability. I accept that there are political aspects in this scenario that make rational evaluation difficult but we should not shy away in the face of this.
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