Without Hope for an Afterlife, What Are We Living For?

If we have no hope, what are we living for?

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Re: Without Hope for an Afterlife, What Are We Living For?

#761  Postby Thomas Eshuis » Nov 26, 2014 7:38 am

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Durro wrote:I find that with my conviction that there is NO afterlife, my life has more meaning, more value, more imperative to live a good life and leave the planet a bit better than how I found it. I view life as precious. I view our natural resources as finite, to be managed judiciously. Being mortal makes me consider our fragile position on this pale blue dot and makes me appreciate the good things I have in this unlikely life.



You do realize that everything, including this earth and universe, is doomed to go out of existence, right? Just the laws of physics.

How is that relevant?

carl wrote:In which case 'leaving this planet a bit better' only gives your life a 'relative significance' - that is, relative to the extremely temporary effect you had on others before it all goes out of existence.

So what?
And it will be a looooong list of generations before these events will hapen/

carl wrote: Which, in turn, means our life has no 'ultimate' significance. Only 'relative significance.

You mean no objective meaning. Ultimate meaning is whatever a person makes of it.
Durro never claimed his life had any objective meaning, so once again you're tilting at straw-man in a desperate attempt to discredit someone else's statements.

carl wrote: On the other hand, what you choose to call 'vacuous' is the complete opposite.

Blind assertion no. 342334.
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Re: Without Hope for an Afterlife, What Are We Living For?

#762  Postby redwhine » Nov 26, 2014 10:35 am

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Nebogipfel wrote:Just what is ultimate significance anyway?

Wasn't it one of Dolph Lungren's movies? :ask:

Nope! None of his movies are in any way significant. :yuk:
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Re: Without Hope for an Afterlife, What Are We Living For?

#763  Postby monkeyboy » Nov 26, 2014 11:40 am

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Paul Almond wrote:What form is this eternal, productive life going to take, anyway? What are you going to produce? Prime numbers?


Might as well. Apparently we're not going to have any wedding tackle in this celestial Narnia.


Not sure I fancy that sort of afterlife. It would crimp my style.
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Re: Without Hope for an Afterlife, What Are We Living For?

#764  Postby Alan B » Nov 26, 2014 11:58 am

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Paul Almond wrote:What form is this eternal, productive life going to take, anyway? What are you going to produce? Prime numbers?


Might as well. Apparently we're not going to have any wedding tackle in this celestial Narnia.

I see. :think: Christians have no wedding tackle; Muslims have everlasting wedding tackle.

I think I know which one I would choose. :smug:
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Re: Without Hope for an Afterlife, What Are We Living For?

#765  Postby Matthew Shute » Nov 26, 2014 12:37 pm

Carl, you're alive. What if there's no more experience to be had outside of this life, and all you're doing is wishing for life to end, wishing it away?

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Re: Without Hope for an Afterlife, What Are We Living For?

#766  Postby Spearthrower » Nov 26, 2014 1:27 pm

carl wrote:
Durro wrote:I find that with my conviction that there is NO afterlife, my life has more meaning, more value, more imperative to live a good life and leave the planet a bit better than how I found it. I view life as precious. I view our natural resources as finite, to be managed judiciously. Being mortal makes me consider our fragile position on this pale blue dot and makes me appreciate the good things I have in this unlikely life.


I might be wrong but I think you are comparing apples and oranges:

1) Your argument is similar to the hypothetical situation where someone is told they are going to die in 1 week so "use what little time you have left and live it well". If I were in such a situation, sure, I would derive more meaning and value, in part, because we tend to value what is scarce, especially time.


Great, so I am sure you can extend your empathy out to consider how atheists view their own existence, then! :)


carl wrote:But then you use one of the common reasons already listed in the original post - the "I have hope for future generations' reason. Remember, this is not hope for YOU.

2) As I have mentioned before, one question we may want to entertain is: "What length of time, from today, do I prefer to have left?" Let's say you want to live until 100, hypothetically, as long as you're healthy, vibrant, and productive.

For a healthy individual who is still productive in society, is 100 really enough for you? Not for me. As a sentient human being, I want more. A lot more. God has set eternity in my heart so I naturally want more. I want Eternity. And if the Bible offers such a message of an eternal and productive life, I don't find it 'vacuous' as you do.

An eternal, productive life together with family and friends - "vacuous"? Really?



See, therein lies the problem. There's too wide a gulf for me between wishing that something was true and it actually being true.

Incidentally, you can't have eternity because you already missed quite a bit before you were born. I think you'd agree that your non-existence prior to being born troubles you very little, if at all. This shows that, actually, you don't think that your non-existence before you were born invalidates your current existence. I'd say that if you consider that, you'd see why your non-existence after you die also doesn't invalidate your current existence - if anything, as we saw in the first paragraph - an existence which you know is limited is of vast meaning and value - the answer to your thread's question.

For me, I'm content to know that this existence now is what I have, and the fact that I won't have all future time is of no more significance than the fact that I didn't have all past time either. I might wish for magic, but I don't seriously contemplate it as anything other than an interesting concept to consider.
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Re: Without Hope for an Afterlife, What Are We Living For?

#767  Postby Spearthrower » Nov 26, 2014 1:29 pm

carl wrote:
Durro wrote:I find that with my conviction that there is NO afterlife, my life has more meaning, more value, more imperative to live a good life and leave the planet a bit better than how I found it. I view life as precious. I view our natural resources as finite, to be managed judiciously. Being mortal makes me consider our fragile position on this pale blue dot and makes me appreciate the good things I have in this unlikely life.



You do realize that everything, including this earth and universe, is doomed to go out of existence, right? Just the laws of physics.

In which case 'leaving this planet a bit better' only gives your life a 'relative significance' - that is, relative to the extremely temporary effect you had on others before it all goes out of existence.


Which is more than adequate. Are you arguing that improving other people's lives is invalidated if they then die? Doesn't seem like it would bear even a brief poking at.


carl wrote:Which, in turn, means our life has no 'ultimate' significance. Only 'relative significance.


Well, it doesn't follow from what you said, but I would happily agree that life has no ultimate significance - only relative significance.


carl wrote:On the other hand, what you choose to call 'vacuous' is the complete opposite.


Actually, no. It's vacuous because it lacks anything of substance, truth, or intellectual integrity: it's pure wish-thinking.
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Re: Without Hope for an Afterlife, What Are We Living For?

#768  Postby Spearthrower » Nov 26, 2014 1:37 pm

Paul Almond wrote:What form is this eternal, productive life going to take, anyway? What are you going to produce? Prime numbers?


:lol:
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Re: Without Hope for an Afterlife, What Are We Living For?

#769  Postby BlackBart » Nov 26, 2014 2:10 pm

Alan B wrote:
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Paul Almond wrote:What form is this eternal, productive life going to take, anyway? What are you going to produce? Prime numbers?


Might as well. Apparently we're not going to have any wedding tackle in this celestial Narnia.

I see. :think: Christians have no wedding tackle;


Yup, according to Carl...

carl wrote:
Secondly, we will be asexual creatures in heaven. Can it still be called heaven? Sure, since sex, although a God-given desire, is not a lasting thing in our lives even now, especially as we age. The seven men and one woman mentioned above will live like brothers and sisters in heaven although they were spouses on earth.


Not sure how all that follows, though - because we end up not desiring it we don't get it in the afterlife? Huh? Given the number of oaps crunching Viagra like smarties these days, I think we do desire it even if the flesh is weak.

Muslims have everlasting wedding tackle.
I think I know which one I would choose. :smug:


Yep. Though as Billy Connolly said, I'd rather have a couple of fire-breathing whores than 72 Virgins. :whistle:

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Re: Without Hope for an Afterlife, What Are We Living For?

#770  Postby Animavore » Nov 26, 2014 2:20 pm

I'm still not getting the big deal with having hope in the afterlife and how it affects this life. It seems more true that without hope in this life there isn't much to live for.
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Re: Without Hope for an Afterlife, What Are We Living For?

#771  Postby Matthew Shute » Nov 26, 2014 3:47 pm

Animavore wrote:I'm still not getting the big deal with having hope in the afterlife and how it affects this life.


I'd say that kind of hope does affect this life, only negatively. This life is viewed as paltry and wretched compared against the promised ultimate joy in the hereafter. Surely, the more people obsess about some ultimate eternity that has nothing to do with this life, the more dimly they view the here and now: the one life we know we have.

I go on the assumption that this life is all I'll ever had, and so I don't take any of it for granted or look on it with contempt. This life isn't heaven's waiting room; this is the main event, no celestial encores or after-parties.
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Re: Without Hope for an Afterlife, What Are We Living For?

#772  Postby Shrunk » Nov 26, 2014 3:53 pm

Animavore wrote:I'm still not getting the big deal with having hope in the afterlife and how it affects this life.


Yes. That seems to be a crucial part of carl's argument, but he hasn't yet got around to substantiating it. Maybe he's working on a chart.....
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Re: Without Hope for an Afterlife, What Are We Living For?

#773  Postby Bubalus » Nov 26, 2014 3:59 pm

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Animavore wrote:I'm still not getting the big deal with having hope in the afterlife and how it affects this life.


Yes. That seems to be a crucial part of carl's argument, but he hasn't yet got around to substantiating it. Maybe he's working on a chart.....


I thought that was Wil's MO :lol:
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Re: Without Hope for an Afterlife, What Are We Living For?

#774  Postby Shrunk » Nov 26, 2014 4:23 pm

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Animavore wrote:I'm still not getting the big deal with having hope in the afterlife and how it affects this life.


Yes. That seems to be a crucial part of carl's argument, but he hasn't yet got around to substantiating it. Maybe he's working on a chart.....


I thought that was Wil's MO :lol:


Yes, that's who I was thinking about. He and carl have a number of traits in common, so I wondered if a penchant for creating pointless charts might be among them.
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Re: Without Hope for an Afterlife, What Are We Living For?

#775  Postby Steve » Nov 26, 2014 5:38 pm

Have you got a chart that shows that? There might be others...
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Re: Without Hope for an Afterlife, What Are We Living For?

#776  Postby carl » Dec 02, 2014 1:30 am

It seems there are at least two groups of atheists here:

Group 1: The mere thought of an afterlife is not attractive at all. Why keep on living?

For those in this group who find their current life boring and unenjoyable, I can see why any continuation (in heaven) of such an unenjoyable life would also be unattractive. If there were something to enjoy, and want to continue to enjoy, then you would be in group 2 (below) instead.

However, my general assumption about this group is that whatever they expect in the afterlife - is probably not Biblical - i.e its boring in heaven, living with an old arthritic body, etc. The Bible tells us it will be anything but boring and 'old'.

Group 2: There is no proof of an afterlife so its wishful thinking. Wishful in that it would be nice and we do wish it to be true but unfortunately its not.

For those in this group, they do have enjoyable lives and look forward to more of it: the joys and pleasures of new friendships as well as older ones, new things to discover in life, whether it be some sort of adventure, satisfactions that come from accomplishing various tasks, meeting goals, etc., the list goes on...

It would seem that IF the afterlife were real (except much better than the current one), this group would want it.

This, in turn, means there is something within you which wants to live on rather than to die. This desire is Biblical AFAIK.

Ecclesiastes 3: He (God) has also set eternity in their heart...

Not a huge observation but still worth making IMHO. Why? Because interestingly, most here state "there is no proof of an afterlife" and stop at that. Admitting to wanting an afterlife, however unrealistic, is seen as a 'weakness', I suspect. If I could go through every comment on this forum, how many would say, "Although there is no proof, it sure would be great and I would really love to have an afterlife in Heaven". I could probably count such admissions on one hand. Such a post would be the exception rather than the rule, for sure.

Yet, we do things on a daily basis to hopefully prolong our lives and not only our own but also take precautions for those whom we love. This, in turn, speaks volumes about our will to continue to live and our desire for our loved ones to live longer too. Otherwise, why take precautions? And if we have a close call, why does our heartrate increase? Is this not a fear reaction?

If it were really no big deal for an atheist to die (as some posts here would seem to imply), atheists would be known to forgo chemo and/or even forgo hospitals and emergency rooms, but instead, they want to be rushed for treatment just like anybody else when necessary. Even Christopher Hitchens tried chemo.







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Re: Without Hope for an Afterlife, What Are We Living For?

#777  Postby The_Metatron » Dec 02, 2014 1:48 am

Who gives a flying blue fuck if something is "biblical"?
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Re: Without Hope for an Afterlife, What Are We Living For?

#778  Postby Shrunk » Dec 02, 2014 2:01 am

carl wrote:It seems there are at least two groups of atheists here:

Group 1: The mere thought of an afterlife is not attractive at all. Why keep on living?

For those in this group who find their current life boring and unenjoyable, I can see why any continuation (in heaven) of such an unenjoyable life would also be unattractive. If there were something to enjoy, and want to continue to enjoy, then you would be in group 2 (below) instead.

However, my general assumption about this group is that whatever they expect in the afterlife - is probably not Biblical - i.e its boring in heaven, living with an old arthritic body, etc. The Bible tells us it will be anything but boring and 'old'.


No, the problem is that the Bible's own description of the afterlife depicts it as boring. If someone makes a boring movie, does it matter if the posters advertising it say that it will be exciting?


Group 2: There is no proof of an afterlife so its wishful thinking. Wishful in that it would be nice and we do wish it to be true but unfortunately its not.

For those in this group, they do have enjoyable lives and look forward to more of it: the joys and pleasures of new friendships as well as older ones, new things to discover in life, whether it be some sort of adventure, satisfactions that come from accomplishing various tasks, meeting goals, etc., the list goes on...

It would seem that IF the afterlife were real (except much better than the current one), this group would want it.

This, in turn, means there is something within you which wants to live on rather than to die. This desire is Biblical AFAIK.

Ecclesiastes 3: He (God) has also set eternity in their heart...

Not a huge observation but still worth making IMHO. Why? Because interestingly, most here state "there is no proof of an afterlife" and stop at that. Admitting to wanting an afterlife, however unrealistic, is seen as a 'weakness', I suspect. If I could go through every comment on this forum, how many would say, "Although there is no proof, it sure would be great and I would really love to have an afterlife in Heaven". I could probably count such admissions on one hand. Such a post would be the exception rather than the rule, for sure.

Yet, we do things on a daily basis to hopefully prolong our lives and not only our own but also take precautions for those whom we love. This, in turn, speaks volumes about our will to continue to live and our desire for our loved ones to live longer too. Otherwise, why take precautions? And if we have a close call, why does our heartrate increase? Is this not a fear reaction?

If it were really no big deal for an atheist to die (as some posts here would seem to imply), atheists would be known to forgo chemo and/or even forgo hospitals and emergency rooms, but instead, they want to be rushed for treatment just like anybody else when necessary. Even Christopher Hitchens tried chemo.


What are you even trying to say here? It seems to me you are only confirming the point many have already made: That the desire for the afterlife originates in the refusal to accept the finality of death. Since you bring up Hitchens, let's let him have his say:

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Re: Without Hope for an Afterlife, What Are We Living For?

#779  Postby Fallible » Dec 02, 2014 8:32 am

carl wrote:It seems there are at least two groups of atheists here:


Nope, there is one group of atheists - those who do not believe in gods.

Group 1: The mere thought of an afterlife is not attractive at all. Why keep on living?


:scratch: What?? Holy non-sequitur, batman!

For those in this group who find their current life boring and unenjoyable, I can see why any continuation (in heaven) of such an unenjoyable life would also be unattractive. If there were something to enjoy, and want to continue to enjoy, then you would be in group 2 (below) instead.


Reading comprehension failure. It's because it would go on forever and you'd just be worshipping God that it would be boring. Read the Bible - it sounds awful. In other words, it would be different from this life, not the same.

However, my general assumption about this group is that whatever they expect in the afterlife - is probably not Biblical - i.e its boring in heaven, living with an old arthritic body, etc. The Bible tells us it will be anything but boring and 'old'.


No one cares about your assumptions, and indeed no one cares what is or is not biblical, especially since you seem content to make shit up about what the bible says when it suits you.

Group 2: There is no proof of an afterlife so its wishful thinking. Wishful in that it would be nice and we do wish it to be true but unfortunately its not.

For those in this group, they do have enjoyable lives and look forward to more of it: the joys and pleasures of new friendships as well as older ones, new things to discover in life, whether it be some sort of adventure, satisfactions that come from accomplishing various tasks, meeting goals, etc., the list goes on...


Sweet merciful crap, where do you get your nonsense from? I mean that is just another completely arbitrary assumption. Does that make sense for believers? That it's only those who have an enjoyable life that wish for an afterlife? Of course it fucking doesn't.

It would seem that IF the afterlife were real (except much better than the current one), this group would want it.


Again, no one cares about what 'it would seem' to you. I don't think you have a proper grasp of the concept of eternity. You'd be doing this stuff forever. FOREVER. It wouldn't stay interesting for eternity. It's the very time-limited nature of those things which keeps them interesting. Even in this life some of them start to wear thin. As someone who has moved many times in my life, I can tell you directly that making new friends for example does not remain a joy and a pleasure after the first 20 times.

This, in turn, means there is something within you which wants to live on rather than to die.


You've just discovered the drive to survive which exists in all living organisms. Congratulations.

This desire is Biblical AFAIK.


No one cares.

Ecclesiastes 3: He (God) has also set eternity in their heart...


No one cares about your stupid book.

Not a huge observation but still worth making IMHO.


No one cares about your opinion.

Why? Because interestingly, most here state "there is no proof of an afterlife" and stop at that.


No, they state 'there is no evidence of an afterlife.

Admitting to wanting an afterlife, however unrealistic, is seen as a 'weakness', I suspect.


No one cares what you suspect.

If I could go through every comment on this forum, how many would say, "Although there is no proof,


Evidence.

it sure would be great and I would really love to have an afterlife in Heaven". I could probably count such admissions on one hand. Such a post would be the exception rather than the rule, for sure.

Yet, we do things on a daily basis to hopefully prolong our lives and not only our own but also take precautions for those whom we love. This, in turn, speaks volumes about our will to continue to live and our desire for our loved ones to live longer too. Otherwise, why take precautions? And if we have a close call, why does our heartrate increase? Is this not a fear reaction?


Yeah...you're still not getting a few basic things here. We all have a drive to keep existing (except in some extreme circumstances) - all living things do. You simply claim that God put it there. You have no evidence for this, it's based on your blind faith, and it can be explained without recourse to your book of fairy tales. Then, again, we have the failure to distinguish between wanting to prolong life and wanting it to go on forever. You're just making an assumption that if one wants to live longer, they want to live forever. I already wrote about my grandmother who made the decision that she had had enough life in her 90s. That didn't stop her when she was in her 40s from seeking prompt medical attention when she started coughing up blood, in order to prolong her life. You simply have no grounds upon which to make the claims you do.

If it were really no big deal for an atheist to die (as some posts here would seem to imply), atheists would be known to forgo chemo and/or even forgo hospitals and emergency rooms, but instead, they want to be rushed for treatment just like anybody else when necessary. Even Christopher Hitchens tried chemo.


I live in hope that one day there will be no more crap for you to extract from your bum and lay down on the forum. That would be heaven to me. Of course it's a big deal to the individual and their loved ones. It just isn't even a hiccup in the grand scheme of things. We as people still remain important to ourselves and to each other, but we don't have the sheer arrogance to think that humans are so special that a separate plane of existence has been created just for us. Your assumptions about atheists realising this and therefore they should not seek medical attention are particularly asinine.







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