Animavore wrote:MattHunX wrote:You...do know that when I use the term "feminazi" I don't, at all, equate any of them to nazis, it is simply a short-hand for feminists who, in their struggle to fight male toxicity become so doggedly mired in their own hate for it they don't noticed when they become just as toxic and hateful. It's why I say that such groups are unfortunate offshoots of otherwise perfectly justified and well-intentioned movements. And obviously nobody who hears or uses the term "feminazi", as a shorthand, is seriously ever likening them to actual nazis. Come on. You know this. We both know this.
Even if I accept this rather weak explanation you still do yourself no favours. You complain that being smeared with the same brush as the sexist, women-hating, MRA, incel, reationary right etc. people, but you're using their language. It's like many Republicans in the US saying, "It's not fair people are equating us with Nazis and KKK" and then using the same dog-whistle words, words like 'degenerates', 'undesirables', 'Make America Great Again', or throw one armed salutes, and post anti-Semitic memes aimed at Soros. You can't expect to not be smeared with the same brush as someone who mindlessly chants on the comments on IGN "Get woke go broke" when you use similar catchphrases, ones that would even make said commentator reading you think, "Hey! He's one of us." This is similar to the problem with Donald Trump and why the likes of white supremacist groups like the KKK can listen to him and say, "I hear ye, Mr. President, loud and clear" [wink. wink. click. click.]".
MattHunX wrote:While I admit it is contributing to the war some, it is difficult to talk about certain spades and not call them spades with whatever widely-understood shorthand there is for them. The intent, from me personally, isn't provocation, but to not be roundabout in describing who and what I have an issue with, because even though I am trying, I am still wasting a lot more time than I want (or should) on in-fighting. In the case of "feminazis", it is a simple shorthand for several sentences worth of an explanation one would otherwise need to make, every time, in order to explain that it's not feminists they have a problem with but their offshoot. It's easier to call the toxic elements a widely known shorthand and when it is still misunderstood and the ones using it are still perceived as anti-feminists and such, it's not on them to keep explaining themselves, anymore. It's on the other side to actually listen and acknowledge the existence of certain rotten elements. Same within "woke-culture" of "SJWs". The two might as well be considered the same thing, as the former came from and is populated by the latter. "PC-culture" predates that and one might say woke-culture is a product or an offshoot of it. But, just as they had negative offshoots that caused further schism in the culture war, so did the anti-all-that side and their offshoot, for a lack of a better term, is the "wannabe edgelords" who are often conflated with actual racists, bigots and whatnot. And because they are, the anti-side is made to look reactionary with no merit to their arguments. It's WHY we're arguing about this right now.
Except you're not calling a spade a spade. SJW is a derogative term. No one self-identifies as an SJW, except ironically. This is not like calling the Alt-Right the Alt-Right, or incels incels. These guys identify as such. They are real groups with their own websites and everything. The term 'SJW' is practically meaningless. It has become a catch-all term for the far-right to mean "anyone I don't like" and has been applied to everyone from Democrats in general to ISIS(!).
Also I reject the comparison of some of the more zealous members of the PC left with those on the border fascist right as if they are the same thing just on opposite sides until they start deliberately endangering lives by not taking medical precautions, driving cars over protesters, start trying to roll back civil rights, start attacking marginalised groups, and generally committing acts of terrorism. There's no comparison with an 'SJW' with a (apparently, but this needs to be argued for) misguided opinion and Neo-fucking-Nazis.
If you feel the need to attack arguments made by individuals or groups it's those arguments you should attack. Otherwise all you are doing is
ad hom-ing and straw-manning.
I don't recall precisely when I first heard the term "feminazi", but what I am certain of is my reaction to it. I just simply thought
"Oh, I get it. It's because they're practically militant man-haters and their vicious and attack others. So, instead of saying 'far-gone' or 'über' or 'extreme feminism' (terms which also unavoidably require explanation, anyway, unless one is immediately considered anti-feminists), with a bit of exaggeration for a somewhat comedic effect, they came up with 'feminazi'. Ah-ha, good one!" I looked at it through a bit of humor. It's why I also don't get offended by any of the things they easily get riled up about, particularly when it's about a joke in stand-up comedy or elsewhere. And apart from slightly funny, I thought it was kind of clever, even. But, not for a split second did it ever ran through my head that anyone, not even those who first started using the term, were seriously equating feminists of the rabid sort to actual nazis. That would be insane. If anyone would be seriously equating them to nazis their offense to the term
would be justified.
But, then...those whose first reaction to it was to immediately think the comparison was actually being made? And
especially those who
still, to this day, react to it as such? You know what I call their reaction?
Being triggered. And the reason they're being triggered is because they're hopped up on all these issues 24/7. It's their
thing. It's all they see, everywhere. They constantly wear red-tinted glasses. Comedians and other people who have been the target of cancel-culture and offense-culture always explain it like this: about everything else, their reaction is normal, but as soon as a topic or the criticism therein touches something close to them, they're set off.
And it doesn't even have to be overt, blatant, purposeful baiting or ad homs even. It can be mild criticism of the topic and their reaction can be just as knee-jerk and even toxic. This isn't mere generalization. It is easily observable behavior within the woke culture, among SJWs. Even mild (legitimate) criticism of their thing can earn their immediate ire and contempt and cause them to lash out and label their perceived enemy. And you know who else that behavior reminds me of? The religious. Sounds familiar? If we'd take that description of them being upset at even mild criticism, without any context as to who it is referring to and we'd ask some, here, on the forum, hell...if you had asked me, a few years ago, what group I think it was describing, I would have immediately said
"Well, obviously the religious." But, these days, I came to observe the same with this growing woke culture and it has become just as much of an annoyance.
I will admit that when I say they're no better than the evil's they claim to fight, it isn't fair to compare them to people who threaten and commit physical violence, of course. Where I see a commonality is with the unnecessary and entirely unavoidable infighting they cause. Because they don't just rabidly go after actual racists, misogynists, bigots...etc., they often turn against their own, on the liberal side, if they're not completely with them, because their mind functions in a way that says if someone's not with them on all issues, if they dare disagree with something, then they're wrong and they're also the enemy. Again, easily observable mentality, if one is being honest by what they see and isn't afraid to say it.
And it's how it started for
me, when I first had a sense that I'm started to get tired of these kind of people always being hostile towards not only individuals who are actually a problem and whose mentality is actually a plague on society, but even to people who were trying to be supportive of them, but whose views differed on some issues. That was mainly about comedy and SJWs getting upset over something in the gaming world that was totally nothing to be upset about, but they either simply couldn't take a joke or didn't understand how something worked within context...etc.
So and so's jokes are offensive to so so! This game is racist and so are the developers! Wah! Why are there no people of color in the Witcher TV series!? How dare they!? Wah Wah! Cancel them! Censor that! We want it removed! We want it changed! We demand an apology!And at the same time, it's when I developed my misgivings about the then newly emerging trend of tokenization, but I couldn't speak about it, because I was afraid. I thought, if I started criticizing this, some idiots and even acquaintances on the net would start thinking I'm racist and most wouldn't have the patience to listen and understand my issues, especially in that fast emerging woke environment. And I was afraid, because I've seen people ousted after arguing with others, who they were otherwise friends with, but ended up clashing over their misunderstood views. Then thankfully I found people who were unafraid and unapologetic talking about the same issues and I felt a weight had lifted, that it was okay to have the criticisms I had. Of course, the risk that people would turn hostile was still very much there, but, by then, I didn't give a damn. Just like with the offended, if they're offended, it's
their problem. And to also clarify something here, specifically in regards to comedy and jokes, when someone cannot laugh at some joke, about a certain topic or if they get downright offended by it, I do not and cannot tell them to get a different sense of humor, because it's not how it works. One cannot just change their sense of humor. But, just because they didn't find it funny and couldn't laugh, doesn't mean others can't or won't. Even many of those who they claim would also be offended at it often times aren't. So the healthier response is to live, leave and let live. But, that isn't what SJWs do, now is it. Which leads me to this...
Now, to make excuses for my ad-homs...
A few months back I watched an interview with Trevor Noah, who was being questioned by someone (some journalist or whatever), who was upset about a completely harmless joke in his stand-up special (that wasn't even the most "offensive" one they could possibly pick out of his entire special, which made me think they didn't even see the rest). It was a joke that he made about his own parents. It was somehow wrong and the questioner ask how he could justify saying such a joke that was offensive. And Trevor Noah, being the smooth, calm, collected, patient and polite person he is, gave a measured response using some song lyrics to simulate and make an analogy to echoing and thus an echo-chamber, countering and explaining how people's offense is amplified in the environment their in, even when it isn't warranted. The person across from him remained silent, but one could easily tell they didn't like even 'that' kind of response. They were quietly boiling. Now, part of me wishes that I could be as patient and eloquent as that and respond to such tiring stupidity with such cleverness and calmness, without resorting to ad-homs or even explicitly, outright pointing out faults in the other person's approach. Staying calm and using inoffensive language can sting even more and deliver a point even better. I've seen that.
However, another part of me goes
"No. Fuck that. They don't deserve it." Why? Because if woke culture and their offense-taking stopped at that, it would be no issue. They'd simmer down and fade out. But, they don't stop there. They'll even try to get people and material that offend them cancelled, these days. And that cancel-culture has now affected and infected media and more worryingly the entertainment industry to the point where one cannot tell jokes, make a movie or even make a statement without cries from the woke crowd, who always find something that upsets them and if they don't immediately find that thing, then, they
demonstrably go
out of their way until they do, picking fights, complaining and creating conflict where there needn't be any. And they don't even need to be called names, they don't even really need ad-homs and buzzwords to trigger them. They can either easily get offended by mild criticism or they'll go and actually purposefully find something that offends them, just to flame it and feel better that they've fought for social justice, when aside from starting more conflict and schism they did fuck all.
And the most annoying thing about it, is that most of the time it's just plain pale white people getting offended and claiming offense in the name of others, many of whom might not even be offended. And they're off to the races, to their flame wars. It's why I like watching reaction videos to e.g.:
Dave Chappelle's or
Bill Burr's stuff, because both of their material has been labeled sexist, racist, homophobic and transphobic, not even by anyone from said category, but mainly by white social justice warriors with a savior complex, who cannot resist speaking in other people's name. And I've seen all sorts of people, including the ones in whose name they love to speak, laugh at the same material, obviously not finding it offensive.
What none of the offended ones (and those who defend them) seem to get, however, is just because they're offended, it doesn't mean their
overreaction as anything but that. It doesn't mean it is warranted, much less legitimate, but they'd gladly destroy people's private and professional lives simply because they're offended.
That is why they deserve ridicule and contempt and shorthand to that affect. And what they get, isn't even really on the level of the contempt they unthinkingly and undeservedly show many who they wrongly perceive as their enemy, whose voices and work they demand to be stopped, just because they're offended. But, of course, it is not surprising that a lot of them cannot take what they often unfairly dish out. It's why they keep getting triggered. It's why all this shit is in perpetual motion.
And if a word triggers them so, well...that is exactly the problem and what all of this ridiculous, bullshit culture-war was born out of, in the first place. We're here
arguing like enemies, because some people somewhere couldn't e.g.: take a joke and then their angry blog snowballed into
an entire culture that now
perpetuates this infighting and they're wholeheartedly convinced they're making society better and more progressive with it. Am I contributing to this war with my language? Yes, I am. Because I'm fed up with them and the effect they had. And a lot of their defenders refuse to even acknowledge the negative elements within, because they either cannot see them, from their own blind-spots, or...because they themselves are afraid that if they point it out, however inoffensively and subtly, that they'll be swallowed up, chewed out and branded the enemy by them. That is also two more types that exist in that culture, the people who are either incapable of seeing and acknowledging the the toxicity and choose to instead respond with condescension and worse to attempts at pointing that toxicity out and there are those who see it, but are afraid of the very real and very possible backlash they would receive should they step out of the echo-chamber. And the ones within that ever expanding echo-chamber are as bad as the self-assured, holier-than-thou religious and just like them, they're convinced their fight is good for progress and society. And I'm just going to mince my words when addressing them? No, thanks. They don't deserve it.
That's all from me.