chairman bill wrote:Here's the thing - two women engaging in sexual activity is fine, 'cos I can imagine getting involved. Two blokes kissing, I really wouldn't want to be involved, and don't want to imagine what it would be like, thanks. Same goes for parents - I've no desire to stick my tongue down my mother's throat, so imagining parents ... no thanks. There's an element of disgust about it I think, and I suspect that is the basis of it. But none of that necessarily leads to homophobia. What does IMO, is looking at two gay men, being a bit turned on by it, and then hating yourself for that, with that hate then projected outwards on to the perceived cause of the trouble. And the stronger the expressed hatred, I suspect the stronger the repressed desire & so on.
Which comes back to the idea that homophobia is merely an expression of suppressed homosexuality within the bigot. Yep.