Nora_Leonard wrote:
SP, I've looked at the first clip from Loose Women (which is a show I've never seen before, but it's just not the kind of thing I'd watch in any case), and I think they are a world removed from the way the women were behaving on The Talk. Linda Bellingham (the woman on the far right) clearly says that it's sexist, and even makes your point that if the roles were reversed women would find it offensive. I didn't think they were displaying anything like the maliciousness of The Talk hosts.
First, I wasn’t comparing it to
The Talk. I’m considering it on its own merits. However, rather than really addressing whether the ad is sexist or not (they gave it lip service) they go into how lazy and incompetent some men are etc. Their conversation went from a sexist ad against men to things that men can’t do. Yes, it’s gentle banter, but males are never allowed to mention things that women can’t do.
I've also now looked at the second two. Again, not a show I'd watch and some of it made me feel uncomfortable, but I never felt they were bashing men. They were also honestly discussing and questioning their own crotch-watching habits. And I'm fairly certain that a similar gathering of male comedians would still get in some comments about women's breasts.
First of all, they’re not comedians at The Improv. They’re a lunchtime talk show on a major network. And to make a fair comparison, one can’t compare female breasts to male genitals. Let’s compare male genitals to female genitals. Now take a similar talk show, with all male hosts, an all male audience and show a picture of a female’s crotch.
[Reveal] NOT SAFE FOR WORK / EXPLICIT CONTENT
How long would the show last on prime time with the guys talking about “her crotch, how big it is and so on?”
How long would those guys have a job?
How long (
in seconds) before the network and the guys would be forced to apologize for such sexism?
That wouldn’t be tolerated for even a second. There would be an outcry of treating women as nothing more than sex objects.
I’m not a prude and not saying that gentle banter isn’t okay, but it’s only okay when females do it. Males cannot, under any conditions whatsoever, do that. I agree, it’s not male bashing, but the reverse situation wouldn’t be tolerated because it’s sexism against women.
Are you really saying that doesn't happen anymore?
If you’re saying that males do that on a major TV network, then I’d love to see some clips where males talk about a female’s crotch and nobody cares or complains.
As for the final clip, again I felt they were discussing it honestly and expressing a range of views and even disagreeing with each other. They weren't all in there saying "They were being sexist, let's get them fired," sort of thing. Not only that, there was that one woman who said something along the lines of "we've all done it" (i.e. said something we shouldn't when wearing a microphone that we thought was switched off).
At 4:17 the lady in red says “
We’re sexist, we’re sexist all of the time, I make a career of being sexist all the time”.
So they’re talking about sexism against females and she says that she’s a sexist!
I'll have to disagree with you on the Loose Women stuff, SP. It might be because I'm more used to British humour and can sense the subtle difference between when something is being ridiculed and when something is having gentle fun poked at it. But also because these women were discussing the issue of male sexism, and were honestly asking the question "are we being sexist here? Do we think this is sexist?" They were talking about it and asking honest questions, and disagreeing with each other, they weren't just pooh-poohing the mere thought that something might be sexist against men.
As I’ve already stated, banter is fun and it’s okay, but in our society it’s only okay when females do it. I don’t watch the show and have had to look over the net, but the general consensus is that
Loose Women use a lot of sexism against males to float their show. Just Google their show and you’ll get lots of hits where there are 100s and 100s of complaints about it for being sexist.
The complaints are how they (with humour) demean men, make fun of men and are totally free to do that without any repercussions. Men aren’t allowed that same freedom. Men can’t make fun of women since society will not tolerate that.
The highlighted part below is indicative of the show’s style.
Are there double standards with TV sexism?
The news this week has been dominated with the inappropriate behaviour of Sky Sports presenters Andy Gray and Richard Keys, who have been caught making sexist comments about women in the industry on several occasions.
But are women making the same mistake? And is it somehow more acceptable for women to make sexist jibes?
Watch Loose Women and you'll see a panel of women ripping into their ex-husbands, current boyfriends and men in general. Or what about that advert for an oven cleaner, featuring a clueless man and the tagline "So simple, even a man can do it." Surely that's as sexist as saying a woman shouldn't be a ref?
Giles Coren recently wrote an interesting piece for the Daily Mail where he suggested that the sacking of the two Sky Sports presenters might lead to further consequences in the sporting field.
Giles claims that men are constantly having to apologise for their sex. And I can see where he's coming from. There are certain jokes women are allowed to make about men, which would be shocking if men made them about women. I suspect this might be because women are seen as the more vulnerable sex.
But when was the last time you heard about a Loose Woman getting a tell off for mocking men?
So, is there a double standard when it comes to sexism? Is it more acceptable for women to make sexist remarks? Let us know in the comments.
http://www.dollymix.tv/2011/01/are_there_double_standards_wit.html