#1034 by Agrippina » Dec 26, 2014 12:27 pm
On this topic. Yesterday, around the lunch table with some friends, their family, and friends, this topic came up. I said that when my sister was dying of cancer, we had several chats about the idea of an afterlife, and she, being aware of her impending death, said that when she died, if there was anything beyond the last breath, anything at all, she would let me know about it. She mentioned specific items of furniture and ornaments in my house, that she would move or us to communicate with me. She also said that if it was possible to "speak" to me (as in God speaks to people), she would do so. Almost 15 years since she died, nothing, nada, not a single peep, or moved ornament, or whisper in my ear.
This provoked one of the women at the table to say that she believed that she was "going to a better place" and that she would meet blah blah blah... So I asked her "why?" Why would she imagine that there's anything better than this place, this earth, this universe, and even if there was, why did she believe that she was going there? What is your evidence?
She couldn't answer of course. Apart from babbling about how she feels it "in her heart" how she believes this isn't all there is, the usual garbage they spout about the afterlife. When I asked about why of all the animals, she said that she believed she was created as a higher order of animal, but that she would meet not only her dead relatives, but also her animals, because they, apparently also go there. I sort of got a bit snarky about the place being a little overcrowded, but then the men changed the subject and poured more champagne. She did end with "I'll see you there." To which I responded, "no you won't, I'm going nowhere."
The point of telling this is what struck me about the people who were nodding their heads in agreement with her, is that they are all reasonably wealthy retired people, who live in places far bigger than their needs, and when questioned about why they want the luxuries say that they can't give up the 16-seater dining table, or the second car, or the whatever the other luxury possessions are. This came up when another person said that she was looking to buy a property here, and I suggested that she look at the ones around us: single bedroom places but really more than a single person needs to live in. She said she couldn't possibly live in a small house. (Hmmm. Thinking about all the billions who've died and gone to heaven, I shouldn't imagine there's much space for 16-seater dining tables there.)
This strikes me as odd. I'd imagine that people who want to live their lives to the fullest, it being the only one they have, and the only chance to experience everything, would be the sort of people who strive to own the best the world has to offer, but this isn't the case. Most of the people I know, who don't do the whole pious "I'm going to Jesus" thing, don't live in the lap of luxury. Oh I'm sure there are fabulously wealthy atheists who own everything it's possible to own, but my personal experience of them is that they give away more than they spend on themselves. It's the people who claim to want to live in "mansions in heaven" who also accumulate as much wealth here, as they possibly can, and who also do the whole "they're just lazy, don't want to work" nonsense.
A mind without instruction can no more bear fruit than can a field, however fertile, without cultivation. - Marcus Tullius Cicero (106 BCE - 43 BCE)